Ljt09863
08-22-2007, 07:26 PM
just a warning, its another future mother in law hate story......
and before i go into it, here is some info. i have posted about her before, and many people tell me to move out of here. as of right now, we are waiting on one issue to be resolved, and then fiance, Alek, and I are out of here! we are going to be renting a mobile home. weve already been approved to move in, there is just one issue to take care of.
anyways. im going to call her B, short for a mean name. im sure you can guess.
so, as most of you have read, i really hate this woman. she has been really mean to us in the past. i do'nt kow if i had posted this, but when we took away her babysittiing priviledges(sp? and we did it cause she was feeding our 3 mo old EIGHT ounces of formula,after being told not to feed him that much. we took away nothing else. she was still about to see him),she flipped out, and tried kicking us out, screaming that she has no son, and has no grandson. long story short, she is crazy. i honestly think that if i took her to a mental hospital, i could get her commited. this is the only person i have ever thought about in my life. since that arguement, i have avoided her. i refuse to go downstairs. i go out the upstairs backdoor, even if its inconvieniet. i wont speak to her. Fiance and i have had arugments about this. he wants me to like his mom.which, i understand why he wants his fiancee and his mother to be close. there isn't anything wrong with that. but its not going to happen. ive even apologized to him for the position he is in.
so today...i have off, and fiance is at work. im on the laptop, and Alek is in his jumperoo(http://www.fisher-price.com/fp.aspx?st=2002&e=product&pid=38839 parents, this thing rocks!). she decides she wants to chat with me. she calls up there stairs....
B-Leah!
Me- what?
B-Are you awake?
Me,thinking,didn't say this- gee. its 1 p.m. i have a 6 month old that sleeps at night, not in the day, OH! and i just answered you! no...im not awake...
me-yea...
B-can i come up and talk?
well....i really didn't want to. but how can i say no? while i hate this woman, and avoid her, i don't go out of my way to be rude to her. although this may have been rude, i just didn't answer the question. i dind't say yes, didn't say no....
after a few minutes of silence...she took that as a yes, and walks upstairs...... t this point, i was at pampers.com. they have this neat program going on. on the diapers and diaper wipes, there are codes on the inside. you enter them online, and you get points. when you get enough points, you can get toys and books from pampers with them. i was putting in codes then. she comes over....
B- you trying to win smething?
Me- No.
she leans over the laptop(laptop is on a dinner tray in fornt of me) to see what im doing. i hate this. it doesn't matter who does this. ive yelled at my brother, my fiance, and my mom for doing this. to me, its nosy. if i want you to know what im doing, ill show you. it wasn't just her doing that pissed me off. i hate it when anybody does. that it was her doin it, made it worse. she keeps asking questions over and over....
B- what happened to the computer?(she asked this about 3 times)
(the cat had knocked it down about two months ago, and the screen is damaged. we can still see about 80% of it, and the 20% we can't really see, is in a corner, so it doesn't affect us that much. ) i didn't answer.
B-Did you drop it AGAIN?
Me- it wasn't dropped in the first place.
she keeps looking over the laptop. i stop what im doing, and it takes her about 2 minutes to get the hint.
then she starts asking about the mobile home. "whats its going to take for you guys to get in there?" i tell her i don't know. she asks me this 3 more times, me answering the same way each time.
she walks over to Alek. she starts talking to him. at first, she isn't saying anything wrong. then....
B-I would pick you up, but your mommy won't let me!
:pissed: i have NEVER said that! i don't know where she gets this stuff! ive never said she can't see him. but i keep hearing from her relatives that shes telling them that I wont let her see him. now, she says i won't let her pick him up!
she keeps repeating that. probably about 6 times. then she picks him up! i don't get it! if you think i don't want you picking him up, then why pick him up! don't say i won't let you do somthing, and then do it.
then she laughs this really weird laugh. she was actually going Aha hahahahahaha! hahahahahahaha! she kept tossing her head back as she does this. it really creeped me out. it kinda sounded as though she was laughing at me. i don't want to sound paranoid, but thats just the feeling i got.
after few minutes, she decides to put alek back in his jumperoo. she sets him in there. instead of pulling his legs through before setting him down, she just plops him in. his legs arent through the holes at all! she LETS HIM GO and reaches under it to pull his legs through the holes!!!! i thought he was going to fall out of it! he was leaning far enough over to really scare me. shes grabbing his legs, trying to pull them out through the holes. he starts cvrying!
so i jump up, and grab him. she grabs his feet.
Me- Let him go
B-no, you let him go, i have his feet
Me- let him go
B- you let him go!i have his feet! they are through the holes
Me(with some serious attitude)-Let. him. go.
she finally lets him go. i hate that. she has done that once before. when i came home fro work one day, she had him, and when i went to grab him(with hiom reaching for me) she actually tightened her hold on him, and didn't want to let him go!!!!!!
B- i had him!
Me- you were hurting him. he was crying.
B- i didn't hurt him! your making a mountain out of a molehill!
Me- no. im not. you hurt him.
B-THATS IT! im talking to mike and iwant you guys out of here this weekend!
Mike is peters uncle who is helping us the the mobile home. she says stuff as she walks downstars, but i couldn't uderstand. i was so mad, i was shaking. ican't stand this woman., i can't wait to get out of here.
i dont want people thinking that me avoiding her makes things worse, so let me explain. this woman likes to use things against you. i avoid her, because she then can't use ANYTHING against me except the fact that i avoid her. that means she only had 1 thing she can throw at me, versuses twisting everything i say and using it against me. i dn't want her buying us ANYTHING because she always throws that at us.
before Alek was born. she OFFERED to buy us carpet for the babys' room. we accept. as we are going through the check out, she keeps saying"you guys cost me so much money! you are so expensive!" we chose the cheapest damn carpet possible! Fiance looked at her and said,"then don't buy the carpet! if its that much, then dont buy it! but remember it was YOU who offered!"
ugh....i need out!!!!!!!!!! i can't wait to get out of here
and before i go into it, here is some info. i have posted about her before, and many people tell me to move out of here. as of right now, we are waiting on one issue to be resolved, and then fiance, Alek, and I are out of here! we are going to be renting a mobile home. weve already been approved to move in, there is just one issue to take care of.
anyways. im going to call her B, short for a mean name. im sure you can guess.
so, as most of you have read, i really hate this woman. she has been really mean to us in the past. i do'nt kow if i had posted this, but when we took away her babysittiing priviledges(sp? and we did it cause she was feeding our 3 mo old EIGHT ounces of formula,after being told not to feed him that much. we took away nothing else. she was still about to see him),she flipped out, and tried kicking us out, screaming that she has no son, and has no grandson. long story short, she is crazy. i honestly think that if i took her to a mental hospital, i could get her commited. this is the only person i have ever thought about in my life. since that arguement, i have avoided her. i refuse to go downstairs. i go out the upstairs backdoor, even if its inconvieniet. i wont speak to her. Fiance and i have had arugments about this. he wants me to like his mom.which, i understand why he wants his fiancee and his mother to be close. there isn't anything wrong with that. but its not going to happen. ive even apologized to him for the position he is in.
so today...i have off, and fiance is at work. im on the laptop, and Alek is in his jumperoo(http://www.fisher-price.com/fp.aspx?st=2002&e=product&pid=38839 parents, this thing rocks!). she decides she wants to chat with me. she calls up there stairs....
B-Leah!
Me- what?
B-Are you awake?
Me,thinking,didn't say this- gee. its 1 p.m. i have a 6 month old that sleeps at night, not in the day, OH! and i just answered you! no...im not awake...
me-yea...
B-can i come up and talk?
well....i really didn't want to. but how can i say no? while i hate this woman, and avoid her, i don't go out of my way to be rude to her. although this may have been rude, i just didn't answer the question. i dind't say yes, didn't say no....
after a few minutes of silence...she took that as a yes, and walks upstairs...... t this point, i was at pampers.com. they have this neat program going on. on the diapers and diaper wipes, there are codes on the inside. you enter them online, and you get points. when you get enough points, you can get toys and books from pampers with them. i was putting in codes then. she comes over....
B- you trying to win smething?
Me- No.
she leans over the laptop(laptop is on a dinner tray in fornt of me) to see what im doing. i hate this. it doesn't matter who does this. ive yelled at my brother, my fiance, and my mom for doing this. to me, its nosy. if i want you to know what im doing, ill show you. it wasn't just her doing that pissed me off. i hate it when anybody does. that it was her doin it, made it worse. she keeps asking questions over and over....
B- what happened to the computer?(she asked this about 3 times)
(the cat had knocked it down about two months ago, and the screen is damaged. we can still see about 80% of it, and the 20% we can't really see, is in a corner, so it doesn't affect us that much. ) i didn't answer.
B-Did you drop it AGAIN?
Me- it wasn't dropped in the first place.
she keeps looking over the laptop. i stop what im doing, and it takes her about 2 minutes to get the hint.
then she starts asking about the mobile home. "whats its going to take for you guys to get in there?" i tell her i don't know. she asks me this 3 more times, me answering the same way each time.
she walks over to Alek. she starts talking to him. at first, she isn't saying anything wrong. then....
B-I would pick you up, but your mommy won't let me!
:pissed: i have NEVER said that! i don't know where she gets this stuff! ive never said she can't see him. but i keep hearing from her relatives that shes telling them that I wont let her see him. now, she says i won't let her pick him up!
she keeps repeating that. probably about 6 times. then she picks him up! i don't get it! if you think i don't want you picking him up, then why pick him up! don't say i won't let you do somthing, and then do it.
then she laughs this really weird laugh. she was actually going Aha hahahahahaha! hahahahahahaha! she kept tossing her head back as she does this. it really creeped me out. it kinda sounded as though she was laughing at me. i don't want to sound paranoid, but thats just the feeling i got.
after few minutes, she decides to put alek back in his jumperoo. she sets him in there. instead of pulling his legs through before setting him down, she just plops him in. his legs arent through the holes at all! she LETS HIM GO and reaches under it to pull his legs through the holes!!!! i thought he was going to fall out of it! he was leaning far enough over to really scare me. shes grabbing his legs, trying to pull them out through the holes. he starts cvrying!
so i jump up, and grab him. she grabs his feet.
Me- Let him go
B-no, you let him go, i have his feet
Me- let him go
B- you let him go!i have his feet! they are through the holes
Me(with some serious attitude)-Let. him. go.
she finally lets him go. i hate that. she has done that once before. when i came home fro work one day, she had him, and when i went to grab him(with hiom reaching for me) she actually tightened her hold on him, and didn't want to let him go!!!!!!
B- i had him!
Me- you were hurting him. he was crying.
B- i didn't hurt him! your making a mountain out of a molehill!
Me- no. im not. you hurt him.
B-THATS IT! im talking to mike and iwant you guys out of here this weekend!
Mike is peters uncle who is helping us the the mobile home. she says stuff as she walks downstars, but i couldn't uderstand. i was so mad, i was shaking. ican't stand this woman., i can't wait to get out of here.
i dont want people thinking that me avoiding her makes things worse, so let me explain. this woman likes to use things against you. i avoid her, because she then can't use ANYTHING against me except the fact that i avoid her. that means she only had 1 thing she can throw at me, versuses twisting everything i say and using it against me. i dn't want her buying us ANYTHING because she always throws that at us.
before Alek was born. she OFFERED to buy us carpet for the babys' room. we accept. as we are going through the check out, she keeps saying"you guys cost me so much money! you are so expensive!" we chose the cheapest damn carpet possible! Fiance looked at her and said,"then don't buy the carpet! if its that much, then dont buy it! but remember it was YOU who offered!"
ugh....i need out!!!!!!!!!! i can't wait to get out of here