Ree needs your prayers!!!!

[The Gatekeeper]

Hi everyone.

I just got a call from Ree. Unfortunately this weekend her dear hubby had a major heart attack. He is in the ICU at a nearby hospital. The prognosis right now is undecided, but the things are rather grim.

Ree is requesting prayers, positive thoughts and energy be sent her way. Actually to DH's way. I know we have Christians, Pagans, Wiccans, and many other denominations on the board. Regardless of your background, please send positive thoughts and energy her way.

I have spent time at Ree and DH's home, and met her family. These are good people. Please do what you can.

I'll update as I have information.

For now I'm going to try and pretend that I can concentrate on work.

[Lil Bunny]

Oh my gosh! Please let her know that I'm sending prayers and good vibes her way!! Oh and hugs, lots and lots of hugs.

Keep us posted?

[iradney]

I'm sending a ginormous amount of love and positive energy both Ree's and RDH's way. Holding many thumbs...

[BuccaneerBill]

Fingers are crossed and positive thoughts are headed their way...

[FuzzyKitten99]

Ditto for everything already said!

[tropicsgoddess]

OMG....I'm sending truckloads of good vibes to her and DH.

[Phoenix79]

Sending good vibes, prayers, thoughts their way - most definitely.

<<<HUGE HUGS>>>

Phoenix

[blas]

Sending lots of prayers Mr. Ree and Ree's way!

[RecoveringKinkoid]

Consider it done.

[protege]

Holy shit :eek::eek:

The kitties and I send good thoughts and plenty of :hug:

[Emrld]

sending everything I've got their way

[Becks]

Done, done and done.

[Plaidman]

Ain't we always here? Lots of love from me and kitty!

[The Gatekeeper]

I'll be calling Ree tonight, after work. I'll make sure to tell her how quick, and how much of a response this thread got.

I'm having a hard time concentrating on work right now. I stayed with Ree and DH last February on our way to Quebec. He's a super nice guy. They adore each other.

Ree, as many of you know, has a very strong faith. She believes in the power of prayer (or positive energy, whatever you want to call it). Knowing that everyone here is behind her, will help give her strength, so that she can pass it on to DH.

I want to thank you on her and her family's behalf.

[Slytovhand]

Done.. and done :D

[Saydrah]

Sending healing thoughts to Ree. That wee grandbaby needs her grandpaw to get better!

[katie kaboom]

You are in my thoughts and prayers Ree. God bless you and your family. We will all pray.:hug:

[Spiffy McMoron]

GK, thank you for keeping us updated.

Ree has been having a tough time lately, with an awful lot on her plate. I hope that her husband and her can pull through this tough time, and I take comfort in the strength that they are drawing from each other and from God. I'm not religious, but I pray for both of them.

[NightAngel]

OH NO! :(

Mad, uber love/prayers and good vibes to both of them!!!

[Bella_Vixen]

Prayers and good vibes are definately on the way.

[Boozy]

This is terrible news. :(

I'll be sending all my good vibes her way.

[Ljt09863]

im sending all the love and hope i have!

[BookstoreEscapee]

Add mine to the pile! :hug:

[Gawdzillers]

Add me........

[strawbabies]

Count me in for sending good thought Ree's family's way.

[Rapscallion]

I was only thinking about him this morning - I'd recalled the time I met him and said, "Thanks for letting us borrow your wife!"

I didn't meet him for long, but he's a decent bloke.

Rapscallion

[Chanlin]

Much good vibes and prayers going that away.

[freeatlast]

Good thoughts and prayers from me too. I have been through it with my Dad and hopefully everything will be OK. I know how tough it is for the whole family.

[Der Cute]

Ok, here are some loves and hugs and very positive energies.

Hugs!
Cutenoob

[kibbles]

I'm sending every positive thought possible!!

[DGoddessChardonnay]

Oh Noes!!!!!!!!!!!!:eek:

Ree hang in there, Girlfriend. We're all rooting for the hubby to pull through.

Sending lots of love and :hug: and good vibes up North tonight.

[Irving Patrick Freleigh]

Just happened upon this. Very sorry to hear it.

Best wishes to Ree and her husband for a complete and speedy recovery.

[monolayth]

wow, hope everything turns out well.

[iradney]

Got a candle burning for Mr Ree. Will also say a little prayer for him tonight.

[Ringman]

hopefully things work out for Ree's husband. hang in there Ree.:hug:

[PuckishOne]

Our thoughts and hopes are with you and your husband, Ree. May your faith and love for one another be your strength in this extremely trying time.

[dendawg]

http://www.superlaugh.com/1/tonycat.jpg

This kitty is praying for you and hubby, Ree, and so am I.

Godspeed.

[Amethyst Hunter]

Sending many good thoughts and well-wishes for Ree and Mr. Ree! :(

[ArcticChicken]

Lots of hugs

[AdminAssistant]

Many good thoughts, prayers, and cookies to Ree and DH. Hope he has a speedy recovery!!

[XCashier]

I'm adding my prayers and best wishes to the pile.

:hug: to Ree and her family.

[Aethian]

Love from my neck of the world too. *snugs and hugs*

[crazylegs]

Not an awful lot I can say that hasn't already been said, you're both in my thoughts.

[ZumZum]

My fast healing wishes are on their way....

[Ree]

This is why I love you guys.

I am staying at the hospital. They have rooms for family members, and I have been told it's mine for as long as I need it.
I am in for the long haul, I suspect. (My daughter brought me a laptop, so I am taking advantage of the network here.)

There was a lot of damage to the heart, but they won't know for a while just how bad. He has a pump in helping it along, but they were able to cut back to every second beat, and he has tolerated that.

The big thing is brain damage.
He is having seizures. They can't control them. I have worn out a chair in the chapel praying for the seizures to stop.
Last night, I put it all in God's hands, and he did have a comfortable night.

They eased up on his sedation, and he was good for about a half hour, but the seizures started again.

He is my life.
He has a beautiful soul and a big heart, and I suspect, it was just much too big.
It has been the worst time in my whole life and the bottom just fell out of my world in seconds,

Our daughter was working with him when it happened, so it's been very hard for her.

He had kissed our granddaughter goodbye and said, "You know your Grandpa loves you very much?" and that was the last time I saw that smile and light in the eyes of the man I love.

It's very hard to see him with tubes running everywhere and machines keeping him stable.
We have made it through 48 hours, though. Later this week, after things stabilize better, they are going to do an EEG to see how his brain is functioning.

Please, keep that prayer and positive energy coming his way.

Thank you all so much for all of your support. It means so much to me, and I will always remember you for it.
I treasure each and every one of you.

:hug:

[Elspeth]

Many hugs and good thoughts coming your way!!:hug:

[crazylegs]

Please, keep that prayer and positive energy coming his way.

Of course we will.

:hug:

[RichS]

Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way.

[cinema guy]

I'm thinking good thoughts.

[TealJellyfish]

Oh Ree! *sends lots of positive thoughts*

[CaroPhoenix]

:hug:

I'll be lighting a candle when I go to church for you and your husband.

I'll also be praying for the both of you.

Take care.

E-mail me or PM me or anything. I'll be here.

[Bliss]

We're all here for you Ree just as you've been here to watch over us.

We're all (me including) wishing our best to you both.

[Supermarket Slave Girl]

Loads of good thoughts, positive vibes and loving prayers and going towards DH and you Ree. Hope he's up and about very soon :hug:

[sportsmom]

Sending thoughts, hopes, prayers and vibes to Ree and Mr. Ree.

[BookstoreEscapee]

Hey Ree. I've been checking back through the afternoon to see if there's an update. Glad to hear he's hanging in there. Keeping fingers crossed...

:hug:

[Binky]

:hug::hug::hug:

Sending love and prayers! All the best for you and your hubby Ree! Glad he's hanging in there, and I hope he gets better ASAP!

[Rine]

I hope for the best. I'm saying extra prayers for you and yours today.

[jnd4rusty]

Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this trying time. Keep your chin up and your eyes on God. He is holding you right this minute!! Take care of yourself!!

[Damien]

prayers and strength sent from Tokyo... will say a prayer at the temple near here for Mr. Ree

[RootedPhoenix]

:eek: :( :eek:

I'll make sure to pray for them. I hope everything turns out well.

[Ree]

Not a lot to report.

He's had 2 fairly good days, considering. It is heading in to 72 hours since it happened.

There have been some positives, but still not a lot of change. At least there hasn't been deterioration, though.

They are doing an EEG today to measure the extent of brain damage, and that will be a big thing.

Please, please, keep the prayers and positive energy going with the wish that the news will be better than my worst fears.

I love you all.

I know it seems odd, given all that is going on, that I am checking in here, but as I said to Raps, this place is just a bit of normalcy among the madness.

Whatever keeps ya sane, I say. ;)


Oh...and please, everyone, hug your loved ones and tell them how important they are to your life. Tell them every day. Life is fragile.

[Boozy]

I'm so glad you're keeping us posted, Ree. We've all been thinking about you, probably more than you realize.

:hug:

[FormerCallingCardRep]

Ree, have they said anything about what could be causing the seizures? Is there a possibility that the heart attack has caused a TIA (mini stroke) caused by a blood clot during the heart attack?

You both are in my thoughts and prayers.

[sld72382]

Hoping for a complete recovery from down in FL.

[Saydrah]

Sounds a lot like a TIA to me as an armchair doctor behind my computer screen, too. I have a friend who has had TIAs and resulting seizures.

I will keep you and hubby in your thoughts, with hope that the EEG shows little brain damage.

[Rapscallion]

This isn't aimed at anyone in particular, but can we please avoid second-guessing the doctors? I don't want anyone to raise false hopes or false fears.

Appreciated.

RAspcallion

[Broomjockey]

Ree, my good thoughts and hopes are with you. :hug:

[morgana]

Chiming in late, just saw this.

Got a candle lit; sending good thoughts.

:hug:

[SteverinoNY]

Coming in way late, but myself, the family, and the puppy will be passing along prayers, hugs, kisses, tail-wags, and big sloppy doggy kisses...hope the mr gets well soon and is taking time having fun with the little one in no time flat.

Will be heading down to the chapel over at work to pass along my intentions to the nuns I work with...might as well call up the direct line to the big guy himself to help the husband get through this

[Misty]

I don't know you, Ree (I'm more of a lurker than a poster), but I've seen you around the CS boards long enough to know that you are are a kind, loving, giving person; the responses to this thread alone is proof of that.

I'm taking my positive thoughts, prayers, and good vibes and adding them to the pile. Hang in there and know that your friends all over the world are pulling for you and your hubby.

[Rubyred]

Sending good vibes, prayers and positive thoughts.

[The Gatekeeper]

I heard from Ree briefly last night. Hubby had a pretty good day yesterday. They managed to get him off of some of the machines, and some other things settled down. He had some tests yesterday, and some more today. No results yet.

Keep doing what you're doing people. Ree and Mr. Ree (too funny) need all the support they can get.

[Rapscallion]

I've started to breathe once more. Just hoping for the next few days.

Rapscallion

[iradney]

Glad to hear Mr Ree has had a better day! Still sending truckloads of good energy, thoughts and prayers their way.

[Emrld]

I think we need to add a tissue alert to this thread.

I know personally I think Ree is amazing. Reading what other people have to write is tearing me up and I am not even Ree.

Still sending thoughts, vibes, energy, prayers, mojo - and whatever extra I have to send that way.

Ree your online family is here for you in anyway that we can be. From telling you how wonderful you are . . .too stories that distract . . .too fullfilling any request you have.
Just know that you are respected, admired, liked, and loved here by way too many to count. (and that is just for you being you)

[irateguy]

im sending my prayers too

[The Gatekeeper]

Ree gave me a call towards the end of my day at work. Unfortunately I couldn't pick up my cell at the time.

Mr. Ree remained stable today. They were suppose to get him into CT. She expects to get the results from that and the EEG tomorrow.

Fingers are crossed. Energy is radiating. Candles are lit.

She wanted me to thank everyone for the thoughts. She really believe it's helping.

[Ringman]

im crossing my fingers and toes that Mr. Ree pulls through this all right. more :hug: for Ree

[The Gatekeeper]

I'm having a tough time writing this right now. I'm at work and trying to keep it together.

I just got a voicemail from Ree. The tests were not good. To paraphrase Ree:

The man she knew is gone.
She did not get the miracle she prayed for.
Mr. Ree was her miracle.
Her daughter and grand daughter are her miracle.
Her family who have been by her side this week, are her miracle.

They will be taking him off life support later today. There is no way of knowing how long he'll last (my mother was 10 days). It could be hours, days, weeks, or months.

[crazylegs]

I'm so sorry to hear that.

We're here if you want to talk, or even if you want to say nothing at all.

[Broomjockey]

Oh no. :( Aw geez no. :hug::hug: Ree, I'm so sorry. I feel a little bit sick just being on the periphery. Ree, remember there's a community of people here to support you.

[Mr. Rager!]

Sending my best wishes your way, Ree.

[FuzzyKitten99]

Oh Lord Ree... I have no idea what to say except that I'm sorry this happened and that if there is anything any one of us can do here, please let us know.

[Phoenix79]

So sorry to hear this . . . please do keep in mind we are all here for you, Ree!

:hug::hug::hug::hug:

Phoenix

[BookstoreEscapee]

Oh, Ree, I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you.

[RecoveringKinkoid]

Ree, all I can say is that I hope you know we care. A lot.

And maybe most of us have never met, nor will ever. but we share some of your pain.

I pray for peace for you, and for your family.

[Dips]

I just found this thread moments ago. Ree, I am so, so sorry that you and your loved ones are going through all this and that you had to make that awful decision.

All of us Dipses are praying for you, for Mr. Ree and for the rest of your family. I wish we could do more.

:cry:

[iradney]

Ree, I'm so, so sorry. If you need anything, we're all here for you.

[tropicsgoddess]

Oh man. I'm so sorry to hear that, Ree. :( :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[Ringman]

:cry::cry::cry::cry: awwwww im so sorry to hear that Ree. Lots of hugs for you and your family :hug::hug::hug:

[dendawg]

Aaaaawwwwww damn. :eek:

Ree, honey, I am so very sorry. :cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:

I just don't know what else to say. :(:(:(:(

[Saydrah]

:cry::cry::cry::cry:

I'm so sorry :hug: :hug: :hug:


My heart goes out to you, your daughter, and your grandbaby. Mr. Ree will soon be free to watch over all of you.

[RichS]

:cry:

I can't think of what else to say, other than I'm sorry, and offer my prayers and support for you and your family.

[Kyree]

I'm so sorry Ree :( *HUGS* I don't know what else to say. My heart goes out to you and your family, you'll all be in my prayers tonight :hug::hug::hug:

[ArcticChicken]

I'm so sorry. If there's anything more we can do, please tell us. We're here for you.

[Bliss]

All I can say now Ree is that you must hold thorough this. I know it's hard and it seems like useless, but hold thorough it, for yourself. And for the kids.

[Evil Queen]

I think I may have given the last of my good vibes to my parents (they really needed it) but I'll see what I can do.

*Plays Beach Boy's "Good Vibrations"*

[Irving Patrick Freleigh]

No......

This is all I can say now. Sorry. I'm just as shocked and saddened as everybody else is.

[Der Cute]

Oh, god..no.
Ree- you have my hugs and prayers and condolences.

:cry::cry::cry::hug::hug::hug:

Cutenoob

[Pedersen]

I'm so sorry Ree. I wish I could do something, or say something, that could help you get through this.

[Spiffy McMoron]

Ree-

I had hoped and prayed that the next time I posted here, it would be on happier terms. Sadly, this was not to be.

I know that no words of mine could wipe away the grief that you are feeling. I only wish that you may cherish his memory, and enjoy your time with your children and foster children; his legacy.

If you wish to talk, I'm here for you. If you don't, I understand that as well.

-Spiffy

[Eric the Grey]

Rhee;

I'm so, so sorry to hear this. My prayers have changed to prayers of strength for you and your family.


:cool: Eric the Grey

[monolayth]

WOW, I am sorry. Trying not to cry here at work for you. hope things go plesantly.

[sportsmom]

Ree, I am so sorry.:hug:

[Amethyst Hunter]

*shakes head* Just...dammit. :( :( :( :( :( :(

Will light a candle for you tonight.

[worddork]

Ree, you and your family have my deepest sympathies. I'm sorry for your loss. Just know that all of us here care for you and will be here when you need us.

[XCashier]

Ree, I am so very sorry. :hug:

I'll keep praying for you and your family.

[NightAngel]

I am so very, very sorry.

I don't know what to say at all- but I'm always here for you.

[Supermarket Slave Girl]

I'm so sorry Ree, i'm at a complete loss for words.

My prayers are with you and your family.

[protege]

I'm so sorry to hear that, Ree
:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

[DGoddessChardonnay]

Oh Ree . . . :cry:

I can't seem to find just the right words right now . . . but just remember you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts every day.

We love you more than words can say:hug:

[Bella_Vixen]

I'm at a loss for words. :hug::hug::hug::hug:

[AdminAssistant]

Ditto to all above.

So, so very sorry.

[Rine]

I'm so sorry to read this...my thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and yours. I'm just so sorry.

[wagegoth]

Ree, I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers have been with you since I first saw the post. I wish they could have given you your miracle.

[cinema guy]

I am so sorry to hear that. ree, I can only offer my sincere condolences.

[CSR Kim]

I'm posting this on behalf of Technical Angel (Jenni), who received this through Gatekeeper:

Ree's husband has passed away. There will be more information as it's available.

And a message from me...my condolences are with you. I am so sorry this happened. :(

[Becks]

:cry: My deepest condolences. :blink:

:hug:

[Irving Patrick Freleigh]

:cry::no:

*token content*

[Eben56]

I am so sorry,,, I have known this kind of pain. But no one knows the true pain. YOUR pain.

I do not know you, I have never met you. But this forum brought me to care about you.

You must remember the good times. Remember the things that made him the person you married.

Celebrate his life.

May you find peace,

Eben

[The Gatekeeper]

I'm just getting home now. Yes I received a text from Ree a little after 7 p.m. EST. There are no words right now. Everything I want to say seems so...inadequate.

[freeatlast]

Ree- you have my deepest sympathy. I will be praying for you and your family.

[Eric the Grey]

My deepest condolences to you and your family. Hold each other and remember the good times.


:cry: Eric the Grey

[Ljt09863]

Ree....im not sure what to say....im sorry doesn't seem like enough....but i am really truly deeply sorry for your loss....

[SteverinoNY]

Damn...there are not enough words to express the sympathy I have for you and your family. I can only wish for you to have the strength to make it through the upcoming days, weeks, months, and years.

I can only hope for the best and I can tell you that your dear husband is no longer suffering and is doing all of the things he could do when he was young and strong.

I feel for your loss and I send out my deepest condolences.

[Gravekeeper]

Damn. =/

There really are no adequate words. I can only offer my deepest sympathies along with the rest of CS.com.

[tropicsgoddess]

My condolences to you and your family, Ree. :( :hug:

[XCashier]

Words are inadequate. My deepest condolences to you and your family, Ree. :(

[Der Cute]

The best I can give is a hug.
Ree, I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what it's like- I have only lost a kitty.

My sympathies and prayers will be with you tonite.

Cutenoob

[Jester]

Even though I have experienced personal loss, I can't honestly say I know what you are going through, Ree. I have lost a parent, and relatives, and friends, but never a spouse, never someone I was building a life with.

I don't have the words to express my sorrow for you and your family. I'd like to offer you some sage advice, some words of wisdom, but I just can't find anything that seems to fit. I hope you can find the inner strength to get through this. I really do.

[Plaidman]

:(

I'm sorry Ree.

I may be from USA, but really, I do whatever I can for you. Just ask.

[Damien]

Dear Ree, words escape me,

like jester, I know loss (my sis, my god-daughter, my gran, my uncle) - but not the pain you must be feeling now - I can't fathom your loss.

Am going to a Buddhist temple tonight, will say a prayer for you and your family and friends.

My deepest condolences.

Damien

[Mr. Rager!]

I'm so sorry Ree *bear hug* :(

[crazylegs]

Ree,

There are no words right now that can express what I want to say, you have my sincere condolences and you are in my thoughts.

There must be hundreds (if not thousands) of little memories that you have of your husband, remember those of him.

I am so sorry.

:(

[Elspeth]

I don't think I can add anything beyond what the others have said. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through. I can send you my strength and thoughts to help you through this time.

:hug::hug::hug:

[iradney]

Ree, TTO and I are so very sorry for your loss. We're sending you a great big load of love and good thoughts. We may be thousands of miles away, but if you need anything, you know where to find us.

[Chazzie]

Poor Ree family...

Wishing you all well. I'm sorry it ended up this way. I hope you and your family can support each other through this. We'll do all we can to help.

I remember Jester saying the Irish have it right - Celebrate his life, rather than mourning his death. I'm sure he'd prefer that.

[Jpurple]

I'm so, so sorry, Ree.....
:cry:

My sincerest condolences to you and your family

[Rapscallion]

I'm gutted. We'll be here for you.

Raspcallion

[The Gatekeeper]

I have the arrangements for the visitation etc. If anyone is interested PM me, and I'll pass it on.

[DGoddessChardonnay]

I can't seem to find the words right now . . . but we're all here for you when you're able to come back. :hug:

While I can't get up there to you, Ree, I'll be there in spirit, along with the rest of the gang here.

We love you bunches.

[morgana]

So very, very sorry, Ree.

Nothing else I can say . . . :(

[SengaKitty]

Oh god Ree, my prayers are with you dear heart. I'm so sorry :( I really don't know what else to say...

[kibbles]

I just wanted to offer my sincere sympathies to you Ree.

[Ringtail Z28]

You have my sympathies Ree, I really at a loss of what else to say. :(

[Camry178]

My deepest sympathies, Ree. I am so sorry for your loss. :hug:

[1756GR2]

Ree, I'm so, so sorry. Prayers said for your and your family's strength and eventual peace. We're all holding you in our various Lights.

[Phoenix79]

I'm so sorry, Ree. We're keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Phoenix

[Lil Bunny]

I just want to send massive hugs and love. If you need anything I'm here for you ok???

[The Gatekeeper]

I went to the visitation yesterday.

Those of you who know me, will probably wet yourselves at what Ree said. Now picture this:

We are in a visitation room at the funeral home. Mr. Ree is resting to Ree's left, and the gathered mourners are assembled in a horseshoe like fashion along the sides of the room, the room is silent. I cross the room as I am about to offer Ree my condolences I do what I really came to do. I give Ree the biggest hug I can muster (it was from me, and everyone on the board). Ree exclaims "OH MY GOD! A ROXIE HUG!!!" and laughs a little as I practically hug the stuffing out of her.

It was worth the drive to her hometown for that!

Ree, I just want you to know that I think you are the strongest and most courageous person I know.

[marasbaras]

Oh god ... Ree ... I'm so sorry. Words cannot convey ... just, so sorry.

[Dilorenzo]

Just came across this... and there's no words I know that can change anything, other than to say, this semi-lurkers thoughts are with you.

[RecoveringKinkoid]

I'm sorry, Ree. You are in my prayers and thoughts.

[Boozy]

I was heartbroken to come back and read this.

All my love, Ree. If there is ever anything I can do, you know where to find me.

[Ree]

Thank you all for your support and prayers and messages of sympathy.

I have been checking in occasionally, just to keep my mind off of things.

I am in a pretty fragile state right now, so I may continue to just lurk for a bit.

I do appreciate all the messages posted.

[CaroPhoenix]

Any time you need to talk Ree. I'm here. Just PM me and I'll give you my AIM & Yahoo! Messenger names. Take care of yourself, please. Much love to you and yours.

[Kiwi]

we will all be here waiting to talk with you again Ree when you are ready

hopefully the pages of support, and love give you some small relief in this tragic time

losing a life partner is the worst thing imaginable, I wish you strength during these difficult days