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Ree
01-25-2009, 06:30 PM
Yesterday, I had the opportunity of volunteering once again with Special Olympics.

It's an annual event for our service club, and this was our 10th year, but because I used to work every Saturday, I have only had the opportunity to volunteer for about 2 or 3 years now.

I had attended part of an event a few years ago with my youth club, and I was so impressed at that time.

There was an athlete still doing the snowshoe track when we arrived. There were about 3 other athletes who had already completed it, but instead of standing there gloating that they had either won or placed, they stood there, cheering on this last competitor, encouraging and clapping, until he finished. We watched him do 2 laps, and it was a 5 lap race, so he was obviously very far behind the others, but instead of just giving up, he kept going.

That was my first experience, although I had certainly heard about the incredible sportsmanship that was a major part of special Olympics.

A few years ago, before I got involved with the youth group, my daughter was a member of the youth group, and my husband was a part of the sponsoring service club, so they had been volunteering for years, and they would tell me stories.

One year, a member of the youth group, who was a pretty "cool dude", always clowning and being a smartass, was helping with the timing and running timecards inside.
There was a girl competing, and it was another situation where she was laps behind the others.
At times, she would just stand, not really quitting, but so tired and not wanting to quit, but not really sure if she could go on.
This young boy went over to the side of the track where she was, and he spent the next 10 minutes in extreme cold, walking beside her and encouraging her until she had completed the track.

Yesterday, there was one of the athletes who had just completed chemo for cancer.
She insisted on competing.
She did one race and then her coach was concerned about her so she scratched her from the rest of the races.
She was so tired.
At the end of the day she said, "I had so much fun."

There were 2 girls who always end up competing against each other in their races, but they are the best of friends.
One of them always takes first place, and the other always takes second, but they each cheer and shout the loudest when the other gets presented with their ribbons.

The first girl was talking to my friend and me, and she was asking what people meant when they said people have a disability, or that they are challenged, because she didn't understand. She said, "I don't know what they mean because I'm just me."
She said, when she is waiting for her bus, sometimes the school kids will call her a "retard", but she doesn't understand what that is.
My friend and I just laughed when the second girl spoke up and said, "Oh, you know that just means they are immature and they are the ones with the problem. They have a disability."

I thought it was so great.

What a healthy attitude to have.

I forgot to mention, it was -17 Celcius, and with the windchil, it was probably close to -30 or -35 Celcius.

I didn't hear one athlete complain about the cold, but my group of kids did nothing but whine all day long about how cold it was.

persephone
01-25-2009, 07:41 PM
I used to volunteer for the Special Olympics in high school with the Key Club. A lot of the kids that volunteered did it cause we got out of school for a day or two, but I always did it because I liked it.

The athletes are always so supportive of each other. They're just happy to be there, just happy to be doing it. They like it when they win, but honestly, I don't think most of them care. They just like competing and being treated like "normal" people for a day.

The Special Olympics is a great program and I think everyone should volunteer with them if possible. It's amazing what you can learn from people -- anyone -- if you just put aside any preconceived notions and treat them like PEOPLE and just listen to them and watch them.

Good for you for volunteering! I'm glad those people got the chance to meet you -- and I bet you're glad you got to meet them too!

dalesys
01-28-2009, 08:22 PM
And the theme song could be "Nine Gold Medals" by David Roth from his 1994 CD "Digging Through My Closet".
(not the famous David Lee Roth, but the other guy)

The athletes had come from all over the country
To run for the gold, for the silver and bronze
Many the weeks and the months of their training
And all coming down to these games

The spectators gathered around the old field
For cheering on all the young women and men
The final event of the day was approaching
Excitement grew high to begin

The blocks were all lined up for those who would use them
The hundred yard dash was the race to be run
There were nine resolved athletes in back of the starting line
Poised for the sound of the gun

The signal was given, the pistol exploded
And so did the runners all charging ahead
But the smallest among them, he stumbled and staggered
And fell to the asphalt instead

He gave out a cry in frustration and anguish
His dreams and his efforts all dashed in the dirt
But as sure as I'm standing here telling this story
The same goes for what next occurred

The eight other runners pulled up on their heels
The ones who had trained for so long to compete
One by one they all turned round and went back to help him
And brought the young boy to his feet

Then all the nine athletes joined hands and continued
The hundred yard dash now reduced to a walk
And the banner above that said "Special Olympics"
Could not have been more on the mark

That's how the race ended, with nine gold medals
For they came to the finish line holding hands still
And the standing ovation and nine beaming faces
Said more than these words ever will

That's how the race ended, with nine gold medals
For they came to the finish line holding hands still
And the banner above that said "Special Olympics"
Said more than these words ever will

McGoddess09
01-28-2009, 11:17 PM
I'm so glad you volunteered. My aunt is mentally challenged and competed in the Special Olympics for running and swimming. My mom,grandma, and grandpa volunteered and told me that they were the sweetest people they had ever met

I get very defensive when people call them retards. One time, a bunch of teens were making fun of my aunt and how she walked. I went over to them and said "Yeah! You're cool for making fun of someone who is mentally challenged! Get a life!"

Good on everyone who volunteers. I want to volunteer at the next one.

AdminAssistant
01-28-2009, 11:30 PM
My grandmother used to participate in the Senior Olympics (a similar organization geared towards senior citizens). She was really competitive though - she was really excited when she turned 85 because she moved up an age bracket and would be one of the youngest in the group. :lol: The last time she participated she won the gold medal in the 1000 yd walk, silver in the 500 yd walk, and bronze in the 250 yd walk. It's amazing what it does for self esteem and such.