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50 mission cap
03-04-2010, 04:12 AM
I have been kind of interested in this co-worker, and today I found out from another
CW that I chat with regularly, that she is interested in me to! Its pretty busy at work but we chat here and there and she is beautiful and really nice, my friend says she wants to chat more with me.

It's a really large office building but we work on the same floor, anyways the thing is I work full time there and part time elsewhere and have alot going on in my life right now, but I have been wanting to work less or enjoy my free time more.

The point is I want to ask her out, and hope she can make time before or after work or whatever. I will be cutting back on my part time hours but dont want to wait until I have day off to ask her, because that could be a while, and I want to ask her before to much time passes so she doesnt think I am not interested.

So do you think I should go for it?

Plaidman
03-04-2010, 04:21 AM
Wow. Young love. Burning jealosy....

Look, first off, find out if there isn't anything against you two dating where you work. If any of you have any sort of power over each other, thats a big no no.

But uh, yeah. Otherwise go for it. Just don't be a crying mess if she says no. It could become a very awkward workplace if you two don't work out.

Eireann
03-04-2010, 02:23 PM
Make sure that your mutual friend is right! It could be a misunderstanding.

50 mission cap
03-05-2010, 10:29 PM
Ya I thought about that to guys, I normally dont date at work but where I have worked before it was small retail places, and I am not her supervisor. Also, they dont mind people dating as long as it doesnt effect your work. In fact lots of people do.


Anyways, I asked her and it turns out she was waiting for me and my other coworker friend to initiate things.

So we are getting together this weekend!

Hobbs
03-06-2010, 01:13 AM
Good luck to you. I personally stay away from work relationships, but that's because I can be reprimanded for it :D

Green_Fairy
03-06-2010, 01:52 AM
good luck to ya. last time i dated a coworker, it ended up being reeeeeeeally awkward after we broke up. so hope things turn out much better for you!

Supermarket Slave Girl
03-10-2010, 07:23 AM
I wish you two all the best, the last co worker I dated I married and we've been married for 9 years, things can work out.

50 mission cap
03-13-2010, 04:22 PM
An update for anyone who is interested. We had a great time at brunch and walking around. Good conversation and joking around. I had a good time and felt really comfortable with her. We seem to have alot common and she commented a few times about various things we could do together! She is really fun and nice, and cute lol.

We are getting together again this weekend.

Eric the Grey
03-14-2010, 02:28 AM
We are getting together again this weekend.

Congratulations. Sounds like things are working out.



:cool: Eric the Grey

Hobbs
03-17-2010, 06:47 AM
...and they called it, puppy loo-oove :p

*ducks and runs*