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Kitten in the box
09-10-2013, 02:47 AM
Just got back from vacation. Most people get a welcome home after being away 2-3 days;

What do I get? Being asked why my bed wasnt cleaned off before i left. Then being told; "maybe you should have stayed longer." When i asked ehat else i did wrong besides come home. This is EXACTLY why I try to stay away as long as possible when doing errands. But it's ok.... I'm use to it. It still hurts, but I'm used to it. The way I see it... When they need me to help out, I'm gonna be "busy." I wished I had stayed longer.... At least I'd be happier rather than upset right now.

Nice 'Wecome back' home huh?!

Sunshine
09-10-2013, 02:53 AM
Wait....why the hell do they care about the state of your bed???? And who is saying that anyway???ugh! Welcome home!! Where did you go? Was it fun? Pictures??

Kitten in the box
09-10-2013, 03:14 AM
Thanks. I had a great time. I went to six flags magic mountain, and knotts berry farm. And I have no clue as to why they were snippy. Maybe an argument. I'm guessing they were mad because of an argument and they need to vent but seriously?? Why me? Come on!!

celticgrl
09-10-2013, 07:14 AM
So glad you had a great time I miss Knotts use to live right around the corner from it. I feel your pain I seem to be the kicking post around my house most of the time also.

Pixilated
09-10-2013, 05:05 PM
Is this your family?? Regardless of who it is ... ye gods!! I'd be tempted next time to leave my room in such a state of chaos that they can't even get through the door.

Anyway, welcome home, and glad to hear you had a good time!

Kitten in the box
09-10-2013, 11:35 PM
Thanks. I know of 2 other people who will be happy to see me. They are homeless but I've known them for over 15 years. They always pay me back when they borrow. It's sad to say, but I went to them one time when I was bothered about something

MoonCat
09-11-2013, 01:55 AM
Well, first of all, WELCOME HOME! I hope you had a a great time! Any good stories from your vacay?

Second--wtf business is it of anyone else's what state your bed was in? Does someone else use it when you're not there? If not, they should shut their pie hole and mind their own business.

Kitten in the box
09-11-2013, 07:52 PM
My family appogized for their behavior and I, being still a bit bothered just said "uh huh it's fine." They sort of stared at me a moment and walked away. I went to talk to them a while later and while they responded it was rather.... Cool.

I know my initial response was a bit off, but I was bothered still. I spoke to my brother, the one who is decent most of the time and he said to try again later. He said that they honestly were sorry and to keep the piece I should have responded more positively before things get fired up gain.

Jester
09-11-2013, 07:55 PM
Maybe if they want to "keep the peace" they shouldn't be such unfeeling judgmental cocktards.

Kanalah
09-11-2013, 10:21 PM
Where is the like button for Jester's post?

To the OP: I hope you had an awesome trip! Sorry they spoiled your return home. :(

I know I'm always glad to get home, and no matter how well I clean before we leave, there's always that "leaving this morning hurry up!" mess in the house.

hinakiba777
09-13-2013, 07:12 PM
I know at my house that my dad naps in my bed when I am gone. But that's because I actually LIVE three or four hours away, and i'm gone for months and months. It's seems silly to get grumpy with you because you didn't make your bed before going on vacation. Maybe guests came over and saw your room wasn't spotless and griped on your family. That's happened to my mom before, (sorry mum) but that is still no reason to get on your case. Not a friendly welcome home at all.

So was Six Flags a blast?!