I'm putting this in sightings because it doesn't really fit anywhere else, as the suck came from the cashier, and not from another customer.
So the last few weeks have been pretty stressful for me and my family. It's been nearly soul crushing. I went to the store today to get some treats for my kids; stuff I normally wouldn't buy, and stuff that is most definitely non-essential. The state had given me a (very) small amount of cash (having to do with what's going on around here) and, since I already get food stamps, it was loaded onto my EBT card. I was using that cash to pay for what I got.
So, the cashier was having trouble with the computer. That's not a big deal. What was a big deal is that she shouted across the store, to another cashier 3 registers down "I can't get the EBT cash benefit to work". I looked at her, then looked around me, and I saw several people looking at what I was purchasing and rolling their eyes. Not that it's any of their business what I was buying (some soda and snack crackers), or why I was buying it (because the kids have been through hell and deserved a small treat, dammit!), but I nearly started crying right then and there.
Now, I admit maybe I wasn't very nice in my response. I looked at her and said "you really shouldn't have done that. I've never been so embarrassed in my life" with a pretty upset tone in my voice, though at a normal, inside volume. In her defense, she did look like she felt bad when she realized what she had done, but geesh! Use some discretion!
I went out to my car, composed myself, drove home and called the store. The manager I spoke with was actually there, and apparently tried to chase after me to apologize, but I was so mortified that I wasn't aware. She was extremely apologetic and said that she's been wanting to do a sensitivity type training with the entire front end staff, as it's not something that they normally get, and that this incident might be enough to convince the upper management that such things are needed. But, at the very least she'd have a chat with that cashier. I'm good with that.
But still, that really was one of the most mortifying experiences of my life, and I'm not easy to embarrass. In the end, I'm glad it was me, and not some person who wasn't so thick skinned.
So the last few weeks have been pretty stressful for me and my family. It's been nearly soul crushing. I went to the store today to get some treats for my kids; stuff I normally wouldn't buy, and stuff that is most definitely non-essential. The state had given me a (very) small amount of cash (having to do with what's going on around here) and, since I already get food stamps, it was loaded onto my EBT card. I was using that cash to pay for what I got.
So, the cashier was having trouble with the computer. That's not a big deal. What was a big deal is that she shouted across the store, to another cashier 3 registers down "I can't get the EBT cash benefit to work". I looked at her, then looked around me, and I saw several people looking at what I was purchasing and rolling their eyes. Not that it's any of their business what I was buying (some soda and snack crackers), or why I was buying it (because the kids have been through hell and deserved a small treat, dammit!), but I nearly started crying right then and there.
Now, I admit maybe I wasn't very nice in my response. I looked at her and said "you really shouldn't have done that. I've never been so embarrassed in my life" with a pretty upset tone in my voice, though at a normal, inside volume. In her defense, she did look like she felt bad when she realized what she had done, but geesh! Use some discretion!
I went out to my car, composed myself, drove home and called the store. The manager I spoke with was actually there, and apparently tried to chase after me to apologize, but I was so mortified that I wasn't aware. She was extremely apologetic and said that she's been wanting to do a sensitivity type training with the entire front end staff, as it's not something that they normally get, and that this incident might be enough to convince the upper management that such things are needed. But, at the very least she'd have a chat with that cashier. I'm good with that.
But still, that really was one of the most mortifying experiences of my life, and I'm not easy to embarrass. In the end, I'm glad it was me, and not some person who wasn't so thick skinned.
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