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  • In which things escalate quickly

    (Warning; this story is mildly graphic, but the good guys win.)

    It's about a quarter after two a few weeks ago. Typical Friday night graveyard shift. I'm stocking an aisle when a page comes over the radio for a supervisor to come to the cash register. Typically, at this hour, calls to the front are one of three things; an override on a transaction with too many voided items, getting cigarettes out of the cage, or arguing with a customer who doesn't understand that the cutoff for alcohol sales is 2 AM. Tonight, it was far stranger.

    The cashier tells me that a woman who had just finished shopping had come back inside and told her a man in the parking lot was trying to take money from her and her friend. I assumed she was talking about a pushy panhandler, which we get our share of late at night, and calmly walk outside to see what's going on. As I step out the door, I hear several female voices yelling and screaming coming from behind a car parked in the handicap stall. I run over and this is what I see;

    A young African-American woman pinned to the ground. Her skirt and underpants have been removed and she is naked from the waist down. An older white man wearing only a pair of cargo shorts is on top of her with the removed garments in one hand, throwing punches at her and shouting racial epithets and something about him having brain damage. And three other African-American women trying to pull him off of her. All of this is happening in a mess of broken eggs from several cartons that have fallen on the ground and been crushed, stomped, and rolled upon.

    I immediately grab my walkie and call that we need the police called right away. My boss asks what's going on and I tell her we've got a woman being assaulted in the parking lot. She runs out with several of our bigger and burlier employees, who jump into the fray and manage to get the woman free and pin him face down on the pavement while my manager calls 911. (I wish I could say I'd assisted in the takedown myself, but I haven't thrown a punch since I was a kid.)

    It takes a good ten minutes for the cops to show up, and while we wait and the attacker continues to shout about how he has brain damage and begs to be let go, one of the other women explains what happened; her sister, the victim, had been having an asthma attack and pulled into the lot so she could catch her breath. He, apparently unprovoked, started yelling at them, throwing epithets around, and accusing them of not being entitled to park in a handicap spot (they did not in fact have a handicap placard; they parked there because it was the closest spot available so she could get some air). At some point, this escalated into him deciding to grab her purse and phone, which they were arguing over when the sister ran inside and alerted the cashier. The other two women didn't even know either party, but intervened on their own when the situation escalated.

    Long story short, the attacker gets handcuffed and taken away, and the young woman, aside from some minor bumps and bruises, is physically unharmed and didn't need medical attention. The attacker's wife showed up at the store in the morning to pick up his car - and made time to complain to one of the other supervisors that his groceries had gone bad while sitting in the car for so many hours. That, evidently, was her top priority.

    The Store is located in kind of a rough neighborhood, but this is the single most insane thing I've seen happen on the property since it opened. It's fortunate we were able to intervene and stop it from getting any worse than it did, but it's kind of scary that someone could just snap on a total stranger like that.

  • #2
    Wow, that was just...incredible! I'm so glad everyone was able to help, and wife's concern over groceries rather than the woman her husband attacked shows where HER priorities are. I'm shocked she didn't demand you replace them for free!

    Please keep us updated if you hear anything!

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    • #3
      O.M.G. o.O Frankly I have no doubt Crazy Man was about to try to rape her. You don't pull off someone's skirt and undies unless you have other plans. I hope she gets counseling due to the shock of the whole thing, and I hope Crazy Man gets help as well.

      As for his wife. Well. [Insert extremely bad language here]
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      • #4
        Holy fucking shit!

        Yeah, that certainly sounds like potential attempted rape to me!

        God, I hope that the meeting of his face and the ground was thorough and long.

        Any information on how the woman is?
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        • #5
          Yikes...I don't believe I've ever been personal witness to a physical assault on a customer at work. That's pretty scary.

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          • #6
            Wow, that is insane.

            I mean, I hate when people park in the handicapped stall when they do not need it. But I will just call the police (non-emergency line) to write them a ticket. The thought of attacking someone never crosses my mind.

            That deserves an extra round of the good beer.
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            • #7
              That was scary! I hope the victim's okay, and gets help if she needs it.

              The wife...unbelievable. Her husband attacked, stripped and nearly raped another woman, and all she cares about is groceries. I'd be looking to divorce the scumbag if I were her.
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              • #8
                I'd be thinking neutering him, myself.

                Of course, maybe she thinks this is normal behavior from him, which says some terrifying things about what he might be like at home.
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                • #9
                  Well, if nothing else, the crazy guy was 100% correct. He DEFINITELY was brain damaged.

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                  • #10
                    That is insane! Yes it is annoying when people park in handicapped spaces when they are not technically entitled to but in that kind of situation (at 2 in the freaking morning no less) I can't wrap my brain around how it was a big enough deal for that kind of response from him.

                    Shame on him, and shame on his wife.

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                    • #11
                      Quoth Tee View Post
                      God, I hope that the meeting of his face and the ground was thorough and long.
                      He spent about 10-15 minutes face-down on the pavement with one guy straddling his back, another guy with his knee on his neck, and another guy handling his legs, all while soaked in egg goo. They weren't much harsher than they needed to be, although one of them mentioned to me later that night that he was kinda disappointed that he didn't get a chance to just light him up.

                      Any information on how the woman is?
                      I haven't been in communication with her, but the local newspaper did a write-up on the story a few days afterward, which stated that she had no notable injuries (physically, at least). The man was charged with assault and was remanded to a local hospital for psych eval.

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                      • #12
                        I want to believe that his wife didn't know about the "attempted rape" part. I really, really, REALLY want to believe.
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                        • #13
                          I think 'catching some breath while in the midst of an asthma attack' is perfectly reasonable as a reason to stop in a handicap space, with or without placard. In fact, I consider it a perfectly good reason to stop anywhere that's a safe place to stop. It's not like you can drive safely while unable to breathe!


                          As for the attacker: just NO. He had no reason to do what he did. And kudos to everyone who helped - whether it be trying to slow his attack, getting stronger people to help, calling the police, or pulling him off her.
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                          • #14
                            Even if she hadn't had a good reason, the guy didn't have ANY reason to turn to violence. Period. And his wife is a piece of work, more worried about the groceries left in the car over night.. wait, were you suppose to break into the car to remove the groceries?

                            Frankly, in her shoes, I'd have been pissed off about having to pick up the asshole's car and then it would have been found, torched, as a giant, "I'm divorcing your ass, and this will be YOU if you come after me." I wouldn't be complaining about the groceries that'd been left. I'd just consider them more fuel for the "F' You" bonfire.

                            He's a rapist waiting to happen. It'd take that strong a message to get it through his head that coming after his ex-wife would be a very, very, very, bad idea.
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                            • #15
                              Quoth rose_metal_nz View Post
                              I want to believe that his wife didn't know about the "attempted rape" part. I really, really, REALLY want to believe.
                              Or she doesn't want to believe.
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