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  • June is not being kind

    My three-years-younger sister was admitted yesterday morning to an Alzheimer's care nursing home . . .

  • #2
    My sympathies. Alzheimer's always sucks, but especially for the folks who've known the victim all their lives.

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    • #3
      I have seen how ugly that can be. Dementia took my mother.

      Hugs and prayers.
      Life is too short to not eat popcorn.
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      • #4
        Thanks, guys. We're not even sure it's Alzheimer's, although the devil's disease does run in our family. Barb has had two major brain injuries, it might be that.

        But either way . . . Dammit.

        So unfair.

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        • #5
          Yuck! So sorry about that. I wish your little sister well.
          "Life is tough. It's even tougher if you're stupid" Redd Foxx as Al Royal - The Royal Family - Pilot Episode - 1991.

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          • #6
            Quoth morgana View Post
            Thanks, guys. We're not even sure it's Alzheimer's, although the devil's disease does run in our family. Barb has had two major brain injuries, it might be that.

            But either way . . . Dammit.

            So unfair.
            The various kinds of damage do accumulate. :-(

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            • #7
              My sympathies. A bit of advise: Get her affairs in order now, including a will, power of attorney, asset inventory, funeral arrangements and medical decision making. Be prepared for years of difficulty.
              I'm trying to see things from your point of view, but I can't get my head that far up my keister!

              Who is John Galt?
              -Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged

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              • #8
                Quoth taxguykarl View Post
                My sympathies. A bit of advise: Get her affairs in order now, including a will, power of attorney, asset inventory, funeral arrangements and medical decision making. Be prepared for years of difficulty.
                Good advice and it's sad it has to be done. I'm sorry this is happening to your family. Heartbreaking.
                "Is it hot in here to you? It's very warm, isn't it?"--Nero, probably

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                • #9
                  Thirded. Get it done now while you can, and get it over with. Keep ALL of the documents in a safe, secure place (and make duplicates of them all in a separate location). It will make things much easier going forward.
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                  • #10
                    It's all been taken care of. Her husband has had everything in hand since Barb quit being able to speak clearly.

                    There IS some relatively good news. Apparently at least some of the recent difficulty was due to a bad reaction to an antibiotic she was on for her kidneys. They've changed it now, and there's been an improvement. She'll never be 'neuronormal' again, we know that, but . . . Improvement . . .

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                    • #11
                      Small amounts of serendipity are still serendipity
                      "For a musician, the SNES sound engine is like using Crayola Crayons. Nobuo Uematsu used Crayola Crayons to paint the Sistine Chapel." - Jeremy Jahns (re: "Dancing Mad")
                      "The difference between an amateur and a master is that the master has failed way more times." - JoCat
                      "Thinking is difficult, therefore let the herd pronounce judgment!" ~ Carl Jung
                      "There's burning bridges, and then there's the lake just to fill it with gasoline." - Wiccy, reddit
                      "Retail is a cruel master, and could very well be the most educational time of many people's lives, in its own twisted way." - me
                      "Love keeps her in the air when she oughta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." - Capt. Malcolm Reynolds, "Serenity" (2005)
                      Acts of Gord – Read it, Learn it, Love it!
                      "Our psychic powers only work if the customer has a mind to read." - me

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                      • #12
                        (((((Squishy hugs)))))

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