So in our household I am the one who takes care of inside cleaning because I'm not really capable of a lot of the outside stuff (though I help with yard work when I can). Plus, that stuff generally gets done while I'm working. Our garage door is electric and wouldn't work the other day. My brother had left for the airport a few days ago and left it halfway up and texted Mom about it. I didn't know anything about it until a couple of days later when Mom asked to borrow my car since she parks in the garage and didn't know how to open it manually (easy but I was working and it was just easer for her to take my car to the store). When I got done working I looked up an article from the local garage door people and tried what they said to re-set it. It didn't work. Asked if Mom was going to utilize our home repair insurance and call someone in and she said no, she would wait until Bro got home. OK, fine. He does a lot of the repair stuff around here and in turn gets fed and doesn't have to do housework.
Fast forward to today. I asked if he knew why it wasn't working and he was surprised I asked. I guess she didn't specifically say "Can you look at it?" He was perturbed I asked, saying "Didn't she just get it to work?" (she left and was able to take her car). I went to test it and no dice so I guess she did it manually, leaving the door up. Well he fiddled with it and figured out the sensor was blocked.
So it's fine, but I didn't like being asked "Did anyone even try to fix it?" Um, yeah...I'm not the one dumping this on him and I was the one who went to the 'net for DIY suggestions first. She wouldn't have. I wasn't even thinking of asking him; she was. And I do try to fix things when I find them. It's just not always me that knows about them first. I mean, I don't even use the garage for anything and that grill that was blocking it isn't mine, wasn't my idea, is not anything I'll ever use. Why am I getting thinly veiled attitude? He was already mad about it days ago; he told me he was angry to find the door halfway up the morning he left so I guess it broke long before I knew and she just left it all night*. Well, I guess he's really mad at her but I have to catch it. I keep telling myself not to ever talk to him about anything house-related. What are we going to do when she passes and we have to deal with this house together?
*thousands of dollars worth of hobbies and musical instruments, not to mention her expensive serger and sewing machine in the basement which is accessible by the garage, so yeah... I keep all my valuables in the house because that basement door is not locked. I know he can't keep that stuff up here so I get why he's frustrated. And yet, the riding mower is in a shed with no door at all....My family don't make sense to me. If I buy him out of his half of this house, things will be run differently, starting with getting rid of all the excess possessions. He can take the TV, BBQ, and all the furniture he bought. I don't want to deal with it. I'm somewhat a minimalist; it reduces stress to not have to worry about expensive stuff.
Fast forward to today. I asked if he knew why it wasn't working and he was surprised I asked. I guess she didn't specifically say "Can you look at it?" He was perturbed I asked, saying "Didn't she just get it to work?" (she left and was able to take her car). I went to test it and no dice so I guess she did it manually, leaving the door up. Well he fiddled with it and figured out the sensor was blocked.
So it's fine, but I didn't like being asked "Did anyone even try to fix it?" Um, yeah...I'm not the one dumping this on him and I was the one who went to the 'net for DIY suggestions first. She wouldn't have. I wasn't even thinking of asking him; she was. And I do try to fix things when I find them. It's just not always me that knows about them first. I mean, I don't even use the garage for anything and that grill that was blocking it isn't mine, wasn't my idea, is not anything I'll ever use. Why am I getting thinly veiled attitude? He was already mad about it days ago; he told me he was angry to find the door halfway up the morning he left so I guess it broke long before I knew and she just left it all night*. Well, I guess he's really mad at her but I have to catch it. I keep telling myself not to ever talk to him about anything house-related. What are we going to do when she passes and we have to deal with this house together?
*thousands of dollars worth of hobbies and musical instruments, not to mention her expensive serger and sewing machine in the basement which is accessible by the garage, so yeah... I keep all my valuables in the house because that basement door is not locked. I know he can't keep that stuff up here so I get why he's frustrated. And yet, the riding mower is in a shed with no door at all....My family don't make sense to me. If I buy him out of his half of this house, things will be run differently, starting with getting rid of all the excess possessions. He can take the TV, BBQ, and all the furniture he bought. I don't want to deal with it. I'm somewhat a minimalist; it reduces stress to not have to worry about expensive stuff.
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