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    This summer really brought out the worst in children, particularly the ones who were at home without any internet service. Every day it seemed, I would receive five to ten calls from children who were calling in to set up internet service. Nine of out those ten usually already had internet service on the account, and these kids were calling to have it set up on their laptops.

    I had a bunch who would identify themselves as the account holder, but could not verify their account information, like their date of birth, their social, and even their own home address. We don't always need the social, but when it comes to one who does not even know where they live, let alone not know their own e-mail address and password, a red flag normally goes up.

    What I found was Mommy and Daddy lock their computers while at work, mainly because they can't trust Junior on the internet. However, Junior also has a lap top computer that Grandma gave him, and he normally calls in to get someone to set it up on his computer for him. In other words, he wants Daddy's e-mail account information set up so he can surf the internet without them knowing.

    One I had a while back was a little girl who was nearly perfect at fooling me, but what gave her away was when she gave me two names. I asked whom I was speaking to, and it first was "Joanne" then, "Um, sorry, it's Janet." I set up the service, then called Janet's contact number on the account. Oh, was she livid to hear her ten year old daughter set up internet service, let alone had access to all of her information.

    When I was a child, we did not have internet service, so I had no idea what I was missing out on. However, there were other things I never would have thought of doing, like playing on the phone for fear of Mom and Dad somehow knew about it. Why do so many parents have children that misbehave like this?
    Last edited by greensinestro; 08-28-2007, 09:06 PM.

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    tbh, if mum cancelled the cable connection I'd probably break out my serial modem and dial a local-rate ISP that doesn't require registration, but that's just me ^^
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    • #3
      A bunch of my little sister's friends (10-11) either have laptops or cell phones. I didn't even get my first cell phone till I was 17 and my first laptop till I was 18, which was just last year. Man kids are spoiled these days.
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      • #4
        That's really funny. What's even funnier is the fact that they think that they can get away with it.
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        • #5
          I find it strange that we are "spoiled" nowerdays for not having to walk uphill to school both ways in a hailstorm...
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          • #6
            Quoth Gabrielle Proctor View Post
            That's really funny. What's even funnier is the fact that they think that they can get away with it.
            Yes, you are correct on that. They don't think about what's going to happen when Mommy gets a bill with these new charges on it.

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            • #7
              Oh I remember the days when parental control was in its infancy and my little brother and I thought we were just so big and bad that we had guessed mom and dad's password on the remote to unblock everything that was TV-MA (we wanted to watch South Park). Well if their password hadn't been 9999 or whatever it was.....
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              • #8
                Quoth blas87 View Post
                Well if their password hadn't been 9999 or whatever it was.....
                You sure it wasn't "1234?"

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                • #9
                  Ok, posts like this make me feel old. The biggest trouble I got in while my Mom was at work was bake a cake in the real oven (not that lousy Betty Bake or whatever it was called). In my defence she said "NO you can't bake any COOKIES!" No cable, cell phones, internet. I do think we had Pong - but she hid the batteries while at work. We were only allowed to use the phone to call Mom in an emergency and even then someone better "damn well better be on fire".
                  It took us several more years to realize that they didn't lock the liquor cabinet.

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                  • #10
                    No MadMike, I'm fairly certain it was the same number 4 times. My mother isn't the smartest cookie that ever lived when it comes to trying to outsmart people. She probably figured we'd never guess the same number 4 times....

                    Nearly everything she tried to hide/lock/protect from us growing up, we always found a way to. And it was always easy to do so. This is why I never underestimate children and their ability to get into things and figure things out. My mom must have assumed we were stupid.
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                    • #11
                      Quoth ArenaBoy View Post
                      A bunch of my little sister's friends (10-11) either have laptops or cell phones.
                      Hell, I still don't have a laptop . . . although I really don't need one either . . .

                      I did have access to the internet when I was younger (Prodigy), probably about 10 or so. I was naive and innocent, plus I was really REALLY computer illiterate, so I didn't do anything bad on the internet . . . plus, I didn't know that there was bad things on the internet . . . It was a big thing to try and get the computer to even connect to the internet, so I hardly deal with it.

                      My husband's son, however, (10 years) isn't even allowed to use the computer. He knows better as well. He has a bad habit of screwing it up and making it work sooo slooowly. He only goes on the internet for video game cheats anyway . . .
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                      • #12
                        I got sent to day camp, so they never had to worry about me until I was in Junior High. After that, I would cut school and go through all my mom's old bags/coats (she was very careless with money) and usually come up with at least $25-$30 in change. My friends and I would usually go shopping for munchies/cigarettes and hang out at my house, though there were a few times we took the subway to Manhattan and just trashed around for the day.
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                        • #13
                          Quoth auntiem View Post
                          Ok, posts like this make me feel old. The biggest trouble I got in while my Mom was at work was bake a cake in the real oven (not that lousy Betty Bake or whatever it was called).
                          Easy Bake.
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                          • #14
                            Quoth auntiem View Post
                            Ok, posts like this make me feel old. The biggest trouble I got in while my Mom was at work was bake a cake in the real oven (not that lousy Betty Bake or whatever it was called). In my defence she said "NO you can't bake any COOKIES!" No cable, cell phones, internet. I do think we had Pong - but she hid the batteries while at work. We were only allowed to use the phone to call Mom in an emergency and even then someone better "damn well better be on fire".
                            It took us several more years to realize that they didn't lock the liquor cabinet.
                            You and I must be the same age or something. While I'm a guy and was not into baking cookies, I still was not allowed to use any kitchen appliance when the parents were not home, which included nuking food in the microwave. And the phone.....no calling Dad unless it was an emergency, and it had better be a dire one. We had Atari, which was not harmful at all like today's games. My dad also kept Jack Daniel's in the kitchen cabinet, the same cabinet we kept the dog biscuits in!

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                            • #15
                              I was taught at a very early age, "If it's not your's, don't touch it." Period, no argument, end of statement. Didn't matter what it was, if it didn't belong to me (and being a child that meant my toys, clothes and dog), don't touch it without asking first. This was the rule any place; at home, visiting, shopping, wherever.

                              My Dad was a cop, and when he came home and took off his gunbelt it lay on the cedar chest at the foot of their bed. Loaded. Looking back that's kind of scary, and I certainly wouldn't do the same with my own kids. But the fact remains, I was taught long before he joined the force not to bother what wasn't mine and I don't remember ever even being curious about it, or if I was I damned sure knew better and didn't consider breaking that rule.

                              Course, then came the teen years. My Mom always told me I'd pay for my raising, and let me tell you, I've done some serious praying over that! LOL I gave my poor parents hell but it was all "internal". None of the trouble I got in ever involved disrespecting other people or their property. Course there was that one time Mom gave me her Dillard's card to go buy some shoes. I got shoes, a skirt, a slip, a purse..... yeah, was a long time working all that off.

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