I work for a website. Most of you know which one, but I'll not name it here so as not to trigger any Google Alerts, and I'll thank the folks who do know not to call it out by name, either-- most of our members really are much nicer than this, and I'd hate for this to be someone's impression of our site.
That said, we have a member who is a nun. For a woman of the cloth, she's always been a bit sharp-tempered, and she does not live in a convent, but she does talk about her religion and has provided some much-needed guidance and friendship to others at times. So, in general, I quite like her.
However, last week she made a rather rude reply on our forum to someone who had insulted her.
Mod: Cool guy who moderates the forums
SN: Sucky Nun
Mod: (message entered while deleting post) "Your post has been deleted for: Abusing other members."
SN: (email to customer service) "Why was my post deleted when you allow ____ to post things that are so much worse?" (not true, _____ has been temp banned before for similar things)
Mod: <insert well-reasoned explanation, quote from terms of use, and suggestion that if another member is harrassing SN, SN is welcome to report this to a moderator or admin>
SN, having failed to get her way immediately, posts a blog on our site. Now, to get the full effect I would have to show this to you in 30 point font in neon colors that change every line, but here's the basic message:
"HOW DARE YOU CENSOR ME I HAVE BEEN DELETED THIS IS AKIN TO SHOOTING ME OR TAKING AWAY MY RIGHTS TO FREE SPEECH THIS IS LIKE GAGGING ME PHYSICALLY I FEEL SO ILL RIGHT NOW SO MUCH FOR THIS BEING A SAFE PLACE TO EXPRESS MYSELF AND ________ CAN JUST DO WHATEVER SHE LIKES I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS HAPPENED TO ME!!!!"
So, of course, Mod deletes her blog post and gives a message explaining that issues with the moderation are to be addressed privately, and offers to pass along her complaints to his supervisor if she likes. He also emails her the same.
Email comes back returned as "not accepting messages from this address."
Meanwhile, the nun takes a couple days to compose a more full complaint. The latest communication from her is something along these lines, sent by email to Mod:
"This is ILLEGAL what you are doing! You cannot take away a person's right to free speech. (Website) is a publicly traded company and I WILL be calling a lawyer and making sure you assholes get arrested and are going to JAIL for censoring my freedom! Also, I will be making sure ALL of your shareholders know what goes on under the table here!
You protect all of your favorites and not anybody else! You are all just a bunch of lying, scheming assholes and are BREAKING THE LAW! I will personally make sure your stock price drops through the floor!"
(Amusingly, our stock price sucks already but rose 100% shortly thereafter)
Mod responded by giving the nun a 2-week timeout to consider whether or not she wants to continue speaking to members and admins in this manner.
That said, we have a member who is a nun. For a woman of the cloth, she's always been a bit sharp-tempered, and she does not live in a convent, but she does talk about her religion and has provided some much-needed guidance and friendship to others at times. So, in general, I quite like her.
However, last week she made a rather rude reply on our forum to someone who had insulted her.
Mod: Cool guy who moderates the forums
SN: Sucky Nun
Mod: (message entered while deleting post) "Your post has been deleted for: Abusing other members."
SN: (email to customer service) "Why was my post deleted when you allow ____ to post things that are so much worse?" (not true, _____ has been temp banned before for similar things)
Mod: <insert well-reasoned explanation, quote from terms of use, and suggestion that if another member is harrassing SN, SN is welcome to report this to a moderator or admin>
SN, having failed to get her way immediately, posts a blog on our site. Now, to get the full effect I would have to show this to you in 30 point font in neon colors that change every line, but here's the basic message:
"HOW DARE YOU CENSOR ME I HAVE BEEN DELETED THIS IS AKIN TO SHOOTING ME OR TAKING AWAY MY RIGHTS TO FREE SPEECH THIS IS LIKE GAGGING ME PHYSICALLY I FEEL SO ILL RIGHT NOW SO MUCH FOR THIS BEING A SAFE PLACE TO EXPRESS MYSELF AND ________ CAN JUST DO WHATEVER SHE LIKES I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS HAPPENED TO ME!!!!"
So, of course, Mod deletes her blog post and gives a message explaining that issues with the moderation are to be addressed privately, and offers to pass along her complaints to his supervisor if she likes. He also emails her the same.
Email comes back returned as "not accepting messages from this address."
Meanwhile, the nun takes a couple days to compose a more full complaint. The latest communication from her is something along these lines, sent by email to Mod:
"This is ILLEGAL what you are doing! You cannot take away a person's right to free speech. (Website) is a publicly traded company and I WILL be calling a lawyer and making sure you assholes get arrested and are going to JAIL for censoring my freedom! Also, I will be making sure ALL of your shareholders know what goes on under the table here!
You protect all of your favorites and not anybody else! You are all just a bunch of lying, scheming assholes and are BREAKING THE LAW! I will personally make sure your stock price drops through the floor!"
(Amusingly, our stock price sucks already but rose 100% shortly thereafter)
Mod responded by giving the nun a 2-week timeout to consider whether or not she wants to continue speaking to members and admins in this manner.
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