Background first; my fiance has a psycho ex, from now on referred to as Bitchface, who in the past tried to cause trouble for us. She has a moronic delusion that I stole Fiance from her, regardless of the fact that a) she cheated on him and he dumped her and b) he split up with her five years before I met him. Bitchface even once threatened to come to my local pub and have it out with me; she didn't show, probably cuz I told her that if she did, I'd beat the shit out of her. We didn't hear from her after she said she was getting married and hoped that would be the end of it.
Sadly, no. For you see, Bitchface started dating one of Fiance's mates, who we shall call Phil. What of the marriage, you say? Well, her fiance dumped her after she punched him in the face. Now, Fiance told Phil exactly what a sort of person Bitchface was like, and told him to be careful. Phil replied saying he was fine, and that Bitchface was gentle and sweet etc. He even asked her to move in with him. Fiance and I weren't happy, but since Phil is a grown man that meant that we couldn't interfere bar telling him all about Bitchface and what a psycho she is. He disregarded our warnings and continued the relationship; I will add that Phil is a very nice man who tends to not like hurting other's feelings and has a tendency to be a doormat. You can see why we were worried.
Anyway, Bitchface managed to behave herself for a week or so til she eventually showed her true colours. During an argument with Phil, she punched him in the face and in the stomach, and he told her to leave. She packed her bags and left. You'd think that would be the end of the relationship, but no, even after Phil found out that Bitchface had cheated on him twice with one night stands. He still wants to talk things thru with her, even tho in my opinion, he should call the police and have her done for assault.
I really don't know how to handle this, and neither does Fiance. It would be a lot easier if Bitchface was the man and Phil was the woman, but this way round... it's hard. For one thing, Phil keeps on saying he loves Bitchface and wants to work things out, but we're scared she might end up really hurting him. Any advice?
Sadly, no. For you see, Bitchface started dating one of Fiance's mates, who we shall call Phil. What of the marriage, you say? Well, her fiance dumped her after she punched him in the face. Now, Fiance told Phil exactly what a sort of person Bitchface was like, and told him to be careful. Phil replied saying he was fine, and that Bitchface was gentle and sweet etc. He even asked her to move in with him. Fiance and I weren't happy, but since Phil is a grown man that meant that we couldn't interfere bar telling him all about Bitchface and what a psycho she is. He disregarded our warnings and continued the relationship; I will add that Phil is a very nice man who tends to not like hurting other's feelings and has a tendency to be a doormat. You can see why we were worried.
Anyway, Bitchface managed to behave herself for a week or so til she eventually showed her true colours. During an argument with Phil, she punched him in the face and in the stomach, and he told her to leave. She packed her bags and left. You'd think that would be the end of the relationship, but no, even after Phil found out that Bitchface had cheated on him twice with one night stands. He still wants to talk things thru with her, even tho in my opinion, he should call the police and have her done for assault.
I really don't know how to handle this, and neither does Fiance. It would be a lot easier if Bitchface was the man and Phil was the woman, but this way round... it's hard. For one thing, Phil keeps on saying he loves Bitchface and wants to work things out, but we're scared she might end up really hurting him. Any advice?
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