If it's a private/forum only, then yeah... and it doesn't even have to give out specific addys, PO boxes can happen for smaller items, right? What's the other forum? (you can just give Raps the details, since this is a public-view thread, so he can investigate a bit). Also, is that forum mostly local to you? we do have many international members here, but they're practically guaranteed not to be asshats about international shipping/problems...
EDIT: you can add a very thorough disclaimer to mitigate the things going wrong.
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