Current mood: and
I honestly didn't think this was going to happen but it's going to happen.
I'm getting married.
J came home on the 4th and as soon as we got to the bedroom, he dropped to one knee and presented me with a ring. Hot damn was I shocked, then happy.
We both know his next deployment date is up in the air this winter. We don't have enough time to plan a nice wedding so soon since both our schedules are busy, (his more than mine). So we're going with going to the courthouse and getting the license and having our pastor marry us. Since a lot of paper work will need to be done and J wants me protected while he's deployed again.
What's making me nervous and angst is that it's happening in a short amount of time and I'm 'OMG I need to get stuff DONE!' The date is July 28th and thankfully he'll be on leave.
It's just where J's mom and my dad (I'm floored he's coming! O,O) are the witness's at our church where we're just gonna get married. But I'm like...'what about a dress and a bouqet? Will dad walk me down the aisle? How does this work? and I gotta get the house super clean! Aaaahhh!'
It doesn't help that I work late at night >< also having pre marriage counseling and making it to that with our contradicting schedules... The best option I have is telling my boss (since I'm a temp) that I wont be working cuz of..all this...but I need money too ><
Help meeee Any of you been through this? I'm so....SO nervous. I can't sleep! T-T
ohyea, I'm not looking for a full wedding dress but more for a nice white summer or white cocktail dress. It's summer! I don't wanna be sweating in a dress I'll wear for a few hours >>
I honestly didn't think this was going to happen but it's going to happen.
I'm getting married.
J came home on the 4th and as soon as we got to the bedroom, he dropped to one knee and presented me with a ring. Hot damn was I shocked, then happy.
We both know his next deployment date is up in the air this winter. We don't have enough time to plan a nice wedding so soon since both our schedules are busy, (his more than mine). So we're going with going to the courthouse and getting the license and having our pastor marry us. Since a lot of paper work will need to be done and J wants me protected while he's deployed again.
What's making me nervous and angst is that it's happening in a short amount of time and I'm 'OMG I need to get stuff DONE!' The date is July 28th and thankfully he'll be on leave.
It's just where J's mom and my dad (I'm floored he's coming! O,O) are the witness's at our church where we're just gonna get married. But I'm like...'what about a dress and a bouqet? Will dad walk me down the aisle? How does this work? and I gotta get the house super clean! Aaaahhh!'
It doesn't help that I work late at night >< also having pre marriage counseling and making it to that with our contradicting schedules... The best option I have is telling my boss (since I'm a temp) that I wont be working cuz of..all this...but I need money too ><
Help meeee Any of you been through this? I'm so....SO nervous. I can't sleep! T-T
ohyea, I'm not looking for a full wedding dress but more for a nice white summer or white cocktail dress. It's summer! I don't wanna be sweating in a dress I'll wear for a few hours >>
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