Apparently I have an interview next week at a convenience store/gas station that just re-opened, but I already know I'm not going to get the job. Why? Well my mother decided to go down there and ask if I could apply. I can only imagine what they think of me. "This girl is 25 and needs her mommy to find her a job...she probably can't work without Mommy holding her hand either."
Also tried a temp agency, but they seem to specialize only in hard labor. I'm not very physically strong and I don't feel like taking a job and herniating myself and then getting fired the first day because I take five hours to move a pile of cinder blocks seven feet. I'm not trying to be picky, but I just know my limits and I don't trust myself to do shit like working with chemicals or welding or lifting heavy stuff.
I actually feel content staying cooped up at home - is it bad that I have no desire to not go outside? Not out of depression, but just because? I truly do enjoy being a homebody and I think that's one of many reason why I have zero desire to work, not to mention that I feel I can work from home (even if it pays shit). That and I hate having no time alone when I am employed - at work I have to deal with asshole bosses, asshole co-workers and asshole customers. Then I come home and deal with my asshole mother. Not working means I get time to myself and some glorious silence with only one asshole at the end of the day.
I can't guarantee success, but I can only try (fuck Yoda - trying is the road between doing and not doing ). I just know not to get my hopes up because I know I will inevitably fail at everything I do. I just really don't think there is anything I could take seriously enough to do on a regular basis, paid or not. I get my small obsessions now and then, but I often lose interest quickly in stuff in general. I just know I'm gonna do a half-assed job at everything unless I sincerely want to do it for myself (or for someone I care about), and there's hardly anything I can say fits that criteria. It's damn hard to build myself back up when I gave up on pretty much everything a long time ago; those who have responded may know how impossible it is to say, "I can do it" without feeling like you're lying to yourself.
On the upside, I have been busying myself a bit more with art and just kind of playing around making tattoo designs (for potential tats for me and just in general). It's nice to draw again and to WANT to draw.
Also tried a temp agency, but they seem to specialize only in hard labor. I'm not very physically strong and I don't feel like taking a job and herniating myself and then getting fired the first day because I take five hours to move a pile of cinder blocks seven feet. I'm not trying to be picky, but I just know my limits and I don't trust myself to do shit like working with chemicals or welding or lifting heavy stuff.
I actually feel content staying cooped up at home - is it bad that I have no desire to not go outside? Not out of depression, but just because? I truly do enjoy being a homebody and I think that's one of many reason why I have zero desire to work, not to mention that I feel I can work from home (even if it pays shit). That and I hate having no time alone when I am employed - at work I have to deal with asshole bosses, asshole co-workers and asshole customers. Then I come home and deal with my asshole mother. Not working means I get time to myself and some glorious silence with only one asshole at the end of the day.
I can't guarantee success, but I can only try (fuck Yoda - trying is the road between doing and not doing ). I just know not to get my hopes up because I know I will inevitably fail at everything I do. I just really don't think there is anything I could take seriously enough to do on a regular basis, paid or not. I get my small obsessions now and then, but I often lose interest quickly in stuff in general. I just know I'm gonna do a half-assed job at everything unless I sincerely want to do it for myself (or for someone I care about), and there's hardly anything I can say fits that criteria. It's damn hard to build myself back up when I gave up on pretty much everything a long time ago; those who have responded may know how impossible it is to say, "I can do it" without feeling like you're lying to yourself.
On the upside, I have been busying myself a bit more with art and just kind of playing around making tattoo designs (for potential tats for me and just in general). It's nice to draw again and to WANT to draw.
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