Why would a guy do this?

[snugglegirl05]

Well...

Musician guy gave me his business card several weeks ago before he sent me that crazy text. He wanted me to call him. I noticed that his e-mail address was on his business card. So I e-mailed him instead.

He sent me an e-mail a couple of weeks later.

Then I get an e-mail with this link in my inbox...

Random Spam Site

The first thing I noticed were the other e-mail addresses he sent this e-mail to plus the cost of Viagra and Cealis.

What the crap is he up to?

[Jester]

Okay, let me make this really clear, and leave no room for misinterpretation....

What he is up to, without any question, is that he is trying to get in your pants. To sleep with you. To park his car in your garage. To land his plane in your hangar. To engage in sexual intercourse with you. In short, to fuck the living shit out of you.

And, it would seem, any other girl who will give him the time of day. Or at least an email. So, unless you feel like riding cowgirl on him, stop calling him, stop emailing him, and ignore his dumb (and very not subtle) ass. Since continued communication from you will only be taken by him as you being interested in his schlong.

[Seraph]

The first thing I noticed were the other e-mail addresses he sent this e-mail to plus the cost of Viagra and Cealis.

What the crap is he up to?

I still think this guy is a scumbag, but this isn't his fault.

What you see there, is a bona fide virus that he's got on his computer, and it's going into his email, and sending out spam to all his contacts.

[snugglegirl05]

So, unless you feel like riding cowgirl on him, stop calling him, stop emailing him, and ignore his dumb (and very not subtle) ass. Since continued communication from you will only be taken by him as you being interested in his schlong.

Oh I have not called him, texted him or e-mailed him since the last text he sent me, which was at 12:04 a.m., stating "Would you like to come over to my place and listen to me play music."

The last time he called me on my cell phone, after he sent that text, I hung up on him.

[dalesys]

What you see there, is a bona fide virus that he's got on his computer, and it's going into his email, and sending out spam to all his contacts.

So even his computer doesn't practice safe...

[Jester]

Oh I have not called him, texted him or e-mailed him since the last text he sent me...

Sorry. Your last post made it seem like you had emailed him SINCE that last text.

My mistake.

Although I still stand by my assessment of his underlying intentions.

[Sapphire Silk]

The email could have been innocent. I've been getting a LOT Of them from former anc current students of mine who've picked up viruses that turned their address books into spam bots.

If the viagra site was in the CC field, then Jester's thoughts might be more on target though.

snugglegirl, have you blocked his cell number from your cell phone? That would seem a prudent step.

I do think Jester's assessment is right in that since he wasn't given a direct no, that means the door is still open. Sex is all he wants, or he'd have been a bit more consistent with the communication IMHO.

It's like that line from Dumb and Dumber, "So there's still a chaannnce . . ."

If he contacts you again give him a literal, "Get lost, loser." If he contacts you again after that, call the cops and file a stalking complaint.

[emt_cookies]

My friend's AOL account sends out spam for Viagra, easy home jobs, and a few other things about twice a year. He usually starts swearing up a storm when that happens because his mom will usually click on the links wondering what her son is sending her.

Depending on the hours he runs, he may have been innocent. I know I used to keep hours like that and a lot of my friends still do. It wasn't that odd for one of them to invite me over to play a video game at 11 pm or later at night. Plus he may have been alone on Thanksgiving. Or he could have been trying to get into your pants. I would have told him that you didn't think inviting you over that late at night would be appropriate and if you went, you would have been disrespectful to your boyfriend.

[Misanthropical]

I agree with everyone else, he is just trying to get into your pants. The guy is a player and you should stop all contact with him.