I was checking out students and she asked about a sale. I asked my sup to help and we were checking out the app to see if there was anything. At first we weren't having luck, which surprised me because it's back to school and I figured there must by something. I said as much, making a joke about it with something like "...hey, Company, help the [college] kids out!" The young man said "I'm 21" which confused me until my coworker tried to smooth over the fact that he was offended by my using the term "kid". I made it worse by explaining in a self-deprecating way that I'm middle-aged--old enough to be their mom so anyone of their age is a kid to me. I kind of want to defend myself here because I saved them $20 and they didn't have to do anything at all for that and the fact that many people would've laughed and said "I know, right!" But I suppose never mentioning age to anyone is the plan for now.
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I'm in my 20s and call people my own age or even a couple years older "kids" sometimes. I usually don't even realize it for a few minutes, then I go, "Wait, he's older than me, how is he a 'kid'?"The fact that jellyfish have survived for 650 million years despite not having brains gives hope to many people.
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So you shouldn't be offended when someone asks you very personal questions about your health while at your work, but the word "kid" is unacceptable. First, you could have been talking about college kids in general (that's actually how I took the context), second, you weren't saying it in a derogatory way... Third, assuming a person is young is generally considered a compliment. *sigh*
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Quoth notalwaysright View PostFirst, you could have been talking about college kids in general (that's actually how I took the context)"Is it hot in here to you? It's very warm, isn't it?"--Nero, probably
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Hah hah hah. I got ma'am'd the other day! It did take me aback for a brief moment, but YAY, she was polite in her ma'am-ing, and we were talking civilly, so it's all good! And yeah, I'm 61, and I have a lovely hairline of silver now, so I guess I should totally expect it.
My basic feeling about ma'am-ing is that as long as it's polite, and you don't call me 'yo, bitch!', I'll roll with it.
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Well, FL, that KID (and he was a indeed a kid) was 21 -- Which means, everyone on the planet should now magically know he's old enough to buy alcohol legally, so you don't need to check his ID!...Right? I mean, he has 3 weeks' worth of stubble now! He's ready to adult! (The poor fool, bahahahaha)"For a musician, the SNES sound engine is like using Crayola Crayons. Nobuo Uematsu used Crayola Crayons to paint the Sistine Chapel." - Jeremy Jahns (re: "Dancing Mad")
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I was at Job #2 (probably should now be called Main Job) today ... somebody called to make an appointment. I got "Good afternoon, sir" and "Thank you, sir" all the way through the call. At one point the caller actually thought I was Bossman. When I said I wasn't, caller said, "Oh, I'm sorry, sir."
Hint: I'm not a "sir."
But I have a fairly low voice for a woman and this is something that's occurred sporadically all through my adult life. I'm looking forward to the invention and widespread distribution of visiphones ...Customer service: More efficient than a Dementor's kiss
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Quoth Food Lady View Post^ My coworker ma'amed a sir the other day.
Alas, praying for the floor to open up and swallow you doesn't work ...Customer service: More efficient than a Dementor's kiss
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Meh, if it's not malicious, no foul. I occasionally get called "Ma'am" even when my hair is short (think Beatles circa 1964).
Now, for malice, I'll channel Freewhellin' Franklin, "Why don't you suck ... and find out!"
'Sides, us old coots and cootesses can look a lot alike...Last edited by dalesys; 11-23-2016, 01:34 AM.I am not an a**hole. I am a hemorrhoid. I irritate a**holes!
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