This involves the same people I've discussed in The Return of Psycho Aunt Sally
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Mother-in-law "Caroline" is in an assisted-living facility in the city, where her day revolves around caring for her dog (walks, etc.) that she & her husband picked-out shortly before he passed away.
Caroline's sister, Psycho Aunt Sally, needs to control everyone's lives ... and anyone who doesn't appreciate it is selfish, rude, disrespectful, ungrateful, etc.
One recent Saturday morning, we received a call from Psycho explaining that Caroline was disoriented and that she (Psycho) had to take the dog because Caroline could no longer care for it.
What?!
That morning, the dog had had an accident in the apartment.
Sally arrived and told Caroline that the people running the facility said that the dog would have to go.
Odd thing is ... NO ONE told Sally that she had to take the dog. NO ONE told her that she COULD take the dog. Sally just grabbed it and left.
Sally did tell the people working there that she was taking care of things while my wife was out-of-town and unreachable.
Here's another odd thing: my wife was NOT out of town. We were both home, but had missed their earlier call that morning.
When my wife arrived at her mother's apartment, Caroline was VERY upset about no longer being able to have her dog. (An emotional event like that is the WORST thing that can happen to an Alzheimer's patient!!!)
My wife called her brother Mike to speak with Psycho about returning the dog, but Psycho told him that she wouldn't have time to drive the dog back, and that Sunday would be the earliest she could get back into the city.
So my wife brought Caroline to our home where we loaded everyone up for a road-trip to the suburbs ... to rescue a dog from a demented nutcase.
When we arrived, Psycho wanted my wife to come in and sit down to talk. Sorry. No time. [Palsgraf] is already late to work because of this. Give us the dog now.
We stopped at a grocery store on the way back to Caroline's apartment, because Psycho said that Caroline had no food at all for the dog . Here's one more odd thing: Surprise, surprise, there was plenty of dog food at Caroline's.
Here's what I think happened ...
Psycho made plans with Caroline to take her out for breakfast Saturday morning. But Caroline forgot about it because she didn't write it down. Psycho called to say, "Are you ready? What? You forgot that we're having breakfast?! Well, I'm almost there. You'd better hurry up and get dressed because I don't have much time!" And that threw Caroline out of her morning routine, causing the dog to have an accident when his walk was delayed.
I also think that Psycho had been obsessing about the day that the dog would have to go, and when it had a small accident, she sprung into action and took over.
The people running the facility said that an animal having one accident is not a reason to take it away from a resident. Animals have accidents all the time. And - agreeing with my wife - they said that taking the dog away was the worst thing that could be done to an Alzheimer's patient.
I suppose Psycho is furious that we never thanked her for "helping."
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Mother-in-law "Caroline" is in an assisted-living facility in the city, where her day revolves around caring for her dog (walks, etc.) that she & her husband picked-out shortly before he passed away.
Caroline's sister, Psycho Aunt Sally, needs to control everyone's lives ... and anyone who doesn't appreciate it is selfish, rude, disrespectful, ungrateful, etc.
One recent Saturday morning, we received a call from Psycho explaining that Caroline was disoriented and that she (Psycho) had to take the dog because Caroline could no longer care for it.
What?!
That morning, the dog had had an accident in the apartment.
Sally arrived and told Caroline that the people running the facility said that the dog would have to go.
Odd thing is ... NO ONE told Sally that she had to take the dog. NO ONE told her that she COULD take the dog. Sally just grabbed it and left.
Sally did tell the people working there that she was taking care of things while my wife was out-of-town and unreachable.
Here's another odd thing: my wife was NOT out of town. We were both home, but had missed their earlier call that morning.
When my wife arrived at her mother's apartment, Caroline was VERY upset about no longer being able to have her dog. (An emotional event like that is the WORST thing that can happen to an Alzheimer's patient!!!)
My wife called her brother Mike to speak with Psycho about returning the dog, but Psycho told him that she wouldn't have time to drive the dog back, and that Sunday would be the earliest she could get back into the city.
So my wife brought Caroline to our home where we loaded everyone up for a road-trip to the suburbs ... to rescue a dog from a demented nutcase.
When we arrived, Psycho wanted my wife to come in and sit down to talk. Sorry. No time. [Palsgraf] is already late to work because of this. Give us the dog now.
We stopped at a grocery store on the way back to Caroline's apartment, because Psycho said that Caroline had no food at all for the dog . Here's one more odd thing: Surprise, surprise, there was plenty of dog food at Caroline's.
Here's what I think happened ...
Psycho made plans with Caroline to take her out for breakfast Saturday morning. But Caroline forgot about it because she didn't write it down. Psycho called to say, "Are you ready? What? You forgot that we're having breakfast?! Well, I'm almost there. You'd better hurry up and get dressed because I don't have much time!" And that threw Caroline out of her morning routine, causing the dog to have an accident when his walk was delayed.
I also think that Psycho had been obsessing about the day that the dog would have to go, and when it had a small accident, she sprung into action and took over.
The people running the facility said that an animal having one accident is not a reason to take it away from a resident. Animals have accidents all the time. And - agreeing with my wife - they said that taking the dog away was the worst thing that could be done to an Alzheimer's patient.
I suppose Psycho is furious that we never thanked her for "helping."
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