Well, not so much "who" as, was I wrong to do what I did? Too generous?
A few weeks ago a few friends of mine and I went out to eat together at a nice little place downtown, or at least, I thought it was nice. The waiter came up and got our orders, joked a little bit, and even waited for "Sarah" to decide what she wanted. The waiter wasn't really that bad, he wasn't the nicest either, just seemed a little annoyed, but he wasn't rude. Now the beers that my friend ordered were watery, and so was his jack and coke, Sarah's mixed drink had WAY too much vodka (and it takes alot for me to say that) and the waiter was slow to refill our drinks, but he did. When he came to refil my pomegranite sprite for the second time, he asked in a tone tha took me aback, because by the way he asked he insinuated that I shouldn't want any, and should switch to water. He even made me ask if refills were free, because that's the only reason I could think he would suggest that, other than for a very rude reason (they were).
As far as the food, it was really sub-par, I hated mine, but then again I think I just ordered the wrong thing, didn't suit my tastes. Then, because all of us had gone to highschool together, but hadn't been together as a group in years we sat and chatted. The place really was pretty empty, so we weren't taking up valuable space ( I am always worried about sitting too long at a table, because I know the waitstaff could have someone else there instead of just us) but the waiter kept circling us like a shark.
All in all, it wasn't the best service I've had, but it wasn't the worst either. At the end my friends decided he didn't deserve a tip. At all. I think our meal came to around 128$ total, and they left him exactly that. I was drug out with my friends, but I immediatly went back in and handed the poor guy 20$. Admitably, I wouldn't have given him that much, but I felt so bad about what they did, and me not being able to get my purse out I gave him the extra.
Anyway, we were talking about it last night and my friend and I got into a decent arguement over it. I'm of the position that sucky or not, that is his living, and I would never, EVER stiff anyone, epescially on such a large tab. My friend stated he thinks that the waiter should have earned it, which I agree with, to earn a decent tip you should earn it. But he brought us our food, the only snarky comment he made was to me, and our drinks were filled. I think he deserved something, in the least.
I wonder, if anyone here thinks there is a time when you should just leave nothing? Does anyone agree with my friends, was he that bad?
A few weeks ago a few friends of mine and I went out to eat together at a nice little place downtown, or at least, I thought it was nice. The waiter came up and got our orders, joked a little bit, and even waited for "Sarah" to decide what she wanted. The waiter wasn't really that bad, he wasn't the nicest either, just seemed a little annoyed, but he wasn't rude. Now the beers that my friend ordered were watery, and so was his jack and coke, Sarah's mixed drink had WAY too much vodka (and it takes alot for me to say that) and the waiter was slow to refill our drinks, but he did. When he came to refil my pomegranite sprite for the second time, he asked in a tone tha took me aback, because by the way he asked he insinuated that I shouldn't want any, and should switch to water. He even made me ask if refills were free, because that's the only reason I could think he would suggest that, other than for a very rude reason (they were).
As far as the food, it was really sub-par, I hated mine, but then again I think I just ordered the wrong thing, didn't suit my tastes. Then, because all of us had gone to highschool together, but hadn't been together as a group in years we sat and chatted. The place really was pretty empty, so we weren't taking up valuable space ( I am always worried about sitting too long at a table, because I know the waitstaff could have someone else there instead of just us) but the waiter kept circling us like a shark.
All in all, it wasn't the best service I've had, but it wasn't the worst either. At the end my friends decided he didn't deserve a tip. At all. I think our meal came to around 128$ total, and they left him exactly that. I was drug out with my friends, but I immediatly went back in and handed the poor guy 20$. Admitably, I wouldn't have given him that much, but I felt so bad about what they did, and me not being able to get my purse out I gave him the extra.
Anyway, we were talking about it last night and my friend and I got into a decent arguement over it. I'm of the position that sucky or not, that is his living, and I would never, EVER stiff anyone, epescially on such a large tab. My friend stated he thinks that the waiter should have earned it, which I agree with, to earn a decent tip you should earn it. But he brought us our food, the only snarky comment he made was to me, and our drinks were filled. I think he deserved something, in the least.
I wonder, if anyone here thinks there is a time when you should just leave nothing? Does anyone agree with my friends, was he that bad?
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