I know I could probably be pissed at this, but at worst, it's mildly offensive. At best, it's adorable... I was laughing my butt off in the car on our way home!
I was grocery shopping with my husband the other day, and as I was purchasing 2 bottles of wine, the cashier requested to see an I.D. (Side note, but this store has ALWAYS been weird when it comes to I.D. time. It's like they have no solid policy in place... one person never checks, one insists on checking *both* our cards, most are fine once one I.D. has been presented. One time I had my I.D out before I was asked, and when I offered to show it the lady waved it away and said the fact that I was that prepared showed I was clearly mature enough to make the purchase! LOL)
This lady was older-if I had to make a guess I'd say early 70's? My husband and I were standing side by side at the register, and while I already had my I.D out, she requested his. This was no big deal because again, this store occasionally will ask to see both, so I waited my turn. She looked at his I.D, handed it back, looked at the both of us, and then this happened.
Cashier: You two are married? She's your wife?
Hubby: Yup. (He's a man of few words, LOL)
Cashier: Ok then, since you're her husband you can be responsible for her! I'll go ahead and authorize the purchase for you two. (Continues transaction with a huge friendly smile on her face).
We both smiled back, and I almost bit a hole in my cheek to keep from laughing or running my mouth off. Still, WTF was that supposed to mean, anyway? Here are my theories...
1. Although all booze purchased in our home is for me, she had no way of knowing that as we hadn't seen her before. (My husband doesn't drink at ALL.) Maybe she was making an awkwardly delivered joke about him having to deal with my drunk ass all the time? (which I don't take offense to, as it's true!)
2. Could she possibly think I look *underage*?!? For crying out loud, I'll be *30* next month! My husband appears older than me, which is hilarious because I'm actually the older one in the relationship (by 6 months, but still!). If that's the case, I'm hugely flattered, although concerned that she may be in need of cataract surgery soon.
3. As suggested in the thread title, this could simply be a generational difference. Maybe I've been watching too much Mad Men lately, but I've been fascinated by that era lately and it's ability to show situations involving terrible issues like racism and sexism and somehow make them look not just quaint, but downright *adorable*. The way women were talked down to by the men in their lives (husbands, doctors, bankers, etc) was accepted as routine. This lady could be the Betty Draper to my Peggy Olsen!
Or maybe she's just a crazy old person. Either way, it was obvious she was trying to make friendly small talk, so I couldn't bring myself to be offended about it.
Still, WTF?!?!?
I was grocery shopping with my husband the other day, and as I was purchasing 2 bottles of wine, the cashier requested to see an I.D. (Side note, but this store has ALWAYS been weird when it comes to I.D. time. It's like they have no solid policy in place... one person never checks, one insists on checking *both* our cards, most are fine once one I.D. has been presented. One time I had my I.D out before I was asked, and when I offered to show it the lady waved it away and said the fact that I was that prepared showed I was clearly mature enough to make the purchase! LOL)
This lady was older-if I had to make a guess I'd say early 70's? My husband and I were standing side by side at the register, and while I already had my I.D out, she requested his. This was no big deal because again, this store occasionally will ask to see both, so I waited my turn. She looked at his I.D, handed it back, looked at the both of us, and then this happened.
Cashier: You two are married? She's your wife?
Hubby: Yup. (He's a man of few words, LOL)
Cashier: Ok then, since you're her husband you can be responsible for her! I'll go ahead and authorize the purchase for you two. (Continues transaction with a huge friendly smile on her face).
We both smiled back, and I almost bit a hole in my cheek to keep from laughing or running my mouth off. Still, WTF was that supposed to mean, anyway? Here are my theories...
1. Although all booze purchased in our home is for me, she had no way of knowing that as we hadn't seen her before. (My husband doesn't drink at ALL.) Maybe she was making an awkwardly delivered joke about him having to deal with my drunk ass all the time? (which I don't take offense to, as it's true!)
2. Could she possibly think I look *underage*?!? For crying out loud, I'll be *30* next month! My husband appears older than me, which is hilarious because I'm actually the older one in the relationship (by 6 months, but still!). If that's the case, I'm hugely flattered, although concerned that she may be in need of cataract surgery soon.
3. As suggested in the thread title, this could simply be a generational difference. Maybe I've been watching too much Mad Men lately, but I've been fascinated by that era lately and it's ability to show situations involving terrible issues like racism and sexism and somehow make them look not just quaint, but downright *adorable*. The way women were talked down to by the men in their lives (husbands, doctors, bankers, etc) was accepted as routine. This lady could be the Betty Draper to my Peggy Olsen!
Or maybe she's just a crazy old person. Either way, it was obvious she was trying to make friendly small talk, so I couldn't bring myself to be offended about it.
Still, WTF?!?!?
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