So I need your advice on something related to this.
Now that Abbey has given her approval for us to go ahead, I've slowly been telling my friends about this. And I shall continue to do so.
However, I have not yet talked to my Mom about this. I want to tell her, but I'm torn, thinking it might be better to wait until I find out if this is actually a possibility or not.
So, should I once again shock my 76 year old mother with yet another crazy thing I'm doing with my life, not knowing if it will, or even can, actually happen?
Or should I wait to tell her about her most unlikely of granddaughters until things are clearer?
Keep in mind, I am quite sure that one or both of my sisters will criticize, condemn, or minimalize this, but frankly, I don't give a flying fuck what they think. Once I've told my my parents, and more specifically my mother (my stepfather is a pretty cool dude, so I'm not overly worried about him at all), then everyone can know, and judge me however they want to. But that is not my concern. Mom is.
So....thoughts?
Now that Abbey has given her approval for us to go ahead, I've slowly been telling my friends about this. And I shall continue to do so.
However, I have not yet talked to my Mom about this. I want to tell her, but I'm torn, thinking it might be better to wait until I find out if this is actually a possibility or not.
So, should I once again shock my 76 year old mother with yet another crazy thing I'm doing with my life, not knowing if it will, or even can, actually happen?
Or should I wait to tell her about her most unlikely of granddaughters until things are clearer?
Keep in mind, I am quite sure that one or both of my sisters will criticize, condemn, or minimalize this, but frankly, I don't give a flying fuck what they think. Once I've told my my parents, and more specifically my mother (my stepfather is a pretty cool dude, so I'm not overly worried about him at all), then everyone can know, and judge me however they want to. But that is not my concern. Mom is.
So....thoughts?
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