I am 50, have 12 gauge piercings and tattoos and listen to most music except bubblegum pop, country western and sappy faux classical [think montovani string orchestra] and joke about my inner head-banger. If I was thin I would probably dress really non-soccermom. Though I was never goth, I was more punk in the CBGB style and back in the day wore my hair in 1 inch bleached out spikes that I would dye different colors as whim decided. [managing my own machine shop made it so I could do whatever I wanted as long as I showed up to work in sturdy clothing and wore steel toe shoes and protective glasses
EVE Online: 99% of the time you sit around waiting for something to happen, but that 1% of action is what hooks people like crack, you don't get interviewed by the BBC for a WoW raid.