The problem is that to an awful lot of people, the UI (user interface) IS the program - or the website.
All they want is the swan swimming gracefully over the water, not the furious paddling. But they DO want the swan to move! :wry:
Seshat's self-help guide:
1. Would you rather be right, or get the result you want?
2. If you're consistently getting results you don't want, change what you do.
3. Deal with the situation you have now, however it occurred.
4. Accept the consequences of your decisions.
My professional areas of expertise are computing and writing: I am not a doctor or a lawyer.
When your health, freedom, etc are at risk, always see a professional.