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  • Abusive Ex Husband

    Not my hubby, as I've never been married. A guest is staying with us, with an order of protection in HER favor, against him. He's called and gotten transferred to her room, only once because there was no note about no calls.

    Now there is. And since he's gotten that notice that he can't get through, he's called to harrass whoevers working.

    Well, now he's FINALLY gotten to me.. and I don't take abuse. For anything. An abusive Ex and a dad who doled it out, make me less of a 'runaway and flee' type, and more of the 'please, do your worst.' It's not bravado, I'm just not running away. I refuse to hide from guys / girls like this.

    He called 2 times tonight so far, and this last time pointed out, "I know you're there alone. I could easily come in and cause you harm."

    Me: "The only thing you got right, was that I'm here." *click*

    I am not alone. I have 2 marines sleeping upstairs who always tell me to call them if I have a problem. I have 2 cops on standby, and my alarm button. Definitely, not alone.

    He's threatened to come hurt me, and the first time he did it, I called the cops. I dunno how they're doing it, but my calls are monitored now. So Hmm. I think I'm safe.

    Word to the wise: As soon as you tell the desk clerk no calls (or if you share WHY you're here (not that you have to of course), we're more than willing to hide you and keep you safe. 99% female desk crew. We wouldn't wish abuse on our worst enemy.

    As I'm going to get waffles, I go out back, see someone in their car. Not too paranoid (Hotel.. and I just checked someone out) look closer, and it's a guy on a phone. As soon as he hangs up, he peels out and leaves.

    I'll assume this is the douchebag.

    He's on our hotel's DNR and he's ALSO on APD's watch list for the next 24-48 hours when the protection order expires, they're escorting the sweet lady to get another one. Even the asshole cop, (The one who says I'm racist) was nice to her. Thank god, I'd have hit him today.

    Side note
    Jester, Mytical, GraveKeeper.. you three would be AWESOME to have at my desk.. LOL Grave could scare people away with a look, Jester and Mytical could make their brains explode with reason.. and everyone would be happy, I'd still have my sanity. So.. can I interest ya?
    Last edited by superhotelworker; 08-23-2010, 11:23 AM.

  • #2
    That guy is just sick. Maybe you can press charges on him too; see if that car matches his. I hope that lady stays with you a while; I'd be afraid for her when she leaves your protection.
    "If anyone wants this old box containing the broken bits of my former faith in humanity, I'll take your best offer now. You may be able to salvage a few of em' for parts..... " - Quote by Argabarga

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    • #3
      She's here til the end of the week. After that, I think she's going to a safe house.

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      • #4
        Quoth superhotelworker View Post

        Side note
        Jester, Mytical, GraveKeeper.. you three would be AWESOME to have at my desk..
        No building could contain the sheer amount of awesome made from this near super hero team.. LOL.

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        • #5
          I'd be ecstatic. Be more fun if I could snag Mr. Hero.. Muahaha. Have another desk clerk with me, then I wouldn't be here alone!

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          • #6
            Quoth superhotelworker View Post
            Side note
            Jester, Mytical, GraveKeeper.. you three would be AWESOME to have at my desk.. LOL Grave could scare people away with a look, Jester and Mytical could make their brains explode with reason.. and everyone would be happy, I'd still have my sanity. So.. can I interest ya?
            What, no love for the Hero?

            Quoth superhotelworker View Post
            I'd be ecstatic. Be more fun if I could snag Mr. Hero.. Muahaha. Have another desk clerk with me, then I wouldn't be here alone!
            Nice recovery. I'll accept but only if I can work the same shift as GK and Jester. I don't really know mytical that well, so I can't comment on whether or not it'd be a fun shift.
            To right the countless wrongs of our days... We shine this light of true redemption, that this place may become as paradise...Oh, what a wonderful world such would be...

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            • #7
              Once again, you live up to your name! And I'm glad that the police are on the ball with this one, threats aren't something to take lightly. (Do people really not realise that the act of making threats is illegal? That by threatening you you can already get them in a world of trouble, whether or not they meant it?)

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              • #8
                I hope this guy will get lost once the lady leaves. I'd keep my eyes open for a while, but my guess is that once his ex leaves the premises, he'll put his effort into finding her. With any luck, his first step in the wrong direction will land him in jail.
                When you start at zero, everything's progress.

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                • #9
                  That's scary. I have an ex-friend that is like that, but my husband has let him know that as soon as he comes within eyesight of me, he is in trouble.
                  Thank you for taking care of that lady. She is going through a really hard time right now, and you helping her like you are is probably making her feel a lot better about this whole thing.
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                  • #10
                    Quoth Mr Hero View Post
                    What, no love for the Hero?
                    Nor Plaidman. Sad.
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                    • #11
                      Unfortunately, summoning me mid combat requires 500 MP, 24 hours and a plane ticket regent. My entrance animation is also obnoxiously long and completely unskippable, so use me sparingly.

                      That said, kudos for the "No, fuck you" stratagem employed here. I am quite fond of that one myself.

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                      • #12
                        Quoth Gravekeeper View Post
                        Unfortunately, summoning me mid combat requires 500 MP, 24 hours and a plane ticket regent. My entrance animation is also obnoxiously long and completely unskippable, so use me sparingly.

                        That said, kudos for the "No, fuck you" stratagem employed here. I am quite fond of that one myself.
                        So, what your're saying is, you're Knights of the Round?

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                        • #13
                          Congrats, SHW, for keeping your cool. If you had shown the tiniest bit of fear, the ass would have been abusing you all night.

                          Having come this close to being killed, I've lost a good chunk of my fear, and learned a lot about how those losers operate.
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                          HR believes the first person in the door
                          Learn how to go over whackamole bosses' heads safely
                          Document everything
                          CS proves Dunning-Kruger effect

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                          • #14
                            So . . . any updates?
                            They say that God only gives us what we can handle. Apparently, God thinks I'm a bad ass.

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                            • #15
                              Quoth wagegoth View Post
                              Congrats, SHW, for keeping your cool. If you had shown the tiniest bit of fear, the ass would have been abusing you all night.
                              WG is right about that. Most of these hoodlums are all talk.
                              I'm trying to see things from your point of view, but I can't get my head that far up my keister!

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                              -Ayn Rand, Atlas Shrugged

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