Not my hubby, as I've never been married. A guest is staying with us, with an order of protection in HER favor, against him. He's called and gotten transferred to her room, only once because there was no note about no calls.
Now there is. And since he's gotten that notice that he can't get through, he's called to harrass whoevers working.
Well, now he's FINALLY gotten to me.. and I don't take abuse. For anything. An abusive Ex and a dad who doled it out, make me less of a 'runaway and flee' type, and more of the 'please, do your worst.' It's not bravado, I'm just not running away. I refuse to hide from guys / girls like this.
He called 2 times tonight so far, and this last time pointed out, "I know you're there alone. I could easily come in and cause you harm."
Me: "The only thing you got right, was that I'm here." *click*
I am not alone. I have 2 marines sleeping upstairs who always tell me to call them if I have a problem. I have 2 cops on standby, and my alarm button. Definitely, not alone.
He's threatened to come hurt me, and the first time he did it, I called the cops. I dunno how they're doing it, but my calls are monitored now. So Hmm. I think I'm safe.
Word to the wise: As soon as you tell the desk clerk no calls (or if you share WHY you're here (not that you have to of course), we're more than willing to hide you and keep you safe. 99% female desk crew. We wouldn't wish abuse on our worst enemy.
As I'm going to get waffles, I go out back, see someone in their car. Not too paranoid (Hotel.. and I just checked someone out) look closer, and it's a guy on a phone. As soon as he hangs up, he peels out and leaves.
I'll assume this is the douchebag.
He's on our hotel's DNR and he's ALSO on APD's watch list for the next 24-48 hours when the protection order expires, they're escorting the sweet lady to get another one. Even the asshole cop, (The one who says I'm racist) was nice to her. Thank god, I'd have hit him today.
Side note
Jester, Mytical, GraveKeeper.. you three would be AWESOME to have at my desk.. LOL Grave could scare people away with a look, Jester and Mytical could make their brains explode with reason.. and everyone would be happy, I'd still have my sanity. So.. can I interest ya?
Now there is. And since he's gotten that notice that he can't get through, he's called to harrass whoevers working.
Well, now he's FINALLY gotten to me.. and I don't take abuse. For anything. An abusive Ex and a dad who doled it out, make me less of a 'runaway and flee' type, and more of the 'please, do your worst.' It's not bravado, I'm just not running away. I refuse to hide from guys / girls like this.
He called 2 times tonight so far, and this last time pointed out, "I know you're there alone. I could easily come in and cause you harm."
Me: "The only thing you got right, was that I'm here." *click*
I am not alone. I have 2 marines sleeping upstairs who always tell me to call them if I have a problem. I have 2 cops on standby, and my alarm button. Definitely, not alone.
He's threatened to come hurt me, and the first time he did it, I called the cops. I dunno how they're doing it, but my calls are monitored now. So Hmm. I think I'm safe.
Word to the wise: As soon as you tell the desk clerk no calls (or if you share WHY you're here (not that you have to of course), we're more than willing to hide you and keep you safe. 99% female desk crew. We wouldn't wish abuse on our worst enemy.
As I'm going to get waffles, I go out back, see someone in their car. Not too paranoid (Hotel.. and I just checked someone out) look closer, and it's a guy on a phone. As soon as he hangs up, he peels out and leaves.
I'll assume this is the douchebag.
He's on our hotel's DNR and he's ALSO on APD's watch list for the next 24-48 hours when the protection order expires, they're escorting the sweet lady to get another one. Even the asshole cop, (The one who says I'm racist) was nice to her. Thank god, I'd have hit him today.
Side note
Jester, Mytical, GraveKeeper.. you three would be AWESOME to have at my desk.. LOL Grave could scare people away with a look, Jester and Mytical could make their brains explode with reason.. and everyone would be happy, I'd still have my sanity. So.. can I interest ya?
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