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  • I don't even know how to classify this.

    It's too serious to be a brain burp. She wasn't really sucky. It was just hard to believe.

    A lady who had to be at least 50 was asking a coworker about the bus. Coworker didn't know, and I normally would have no idea, but recently I've taken one route to work due to car issues. So I told her as far as I know, the main route across town leaves our area at 8:45 and that's it's last run, but I don't know for sure. It was now like 8:50; this lady had missed it and didn't know when the last departure was, nor did she know about any route other than the one I mentioned, which she took to the mall. She was saying, "So now I'm stranded? What do I do?" She mentioned something about the call-for-ride service the transit company has, and I told her I didn't know how late it went, or how to order it. I suggested she call the number on her bus pass. She didn't have her phone, so I offered her ours. She wanted me to call and ask for her. I just told her I couldn't because I might have a customer. I ended up having to dial it for her, as she seemed to agitated to do that, and for whatever reason it wouldn't go through. Oh, and she kept asking me what to do, since she figured her daughter would say, "I don't have gas money." I suspect her daughter is tired of dealing with this kind of thing. The service desk girl tried dialling the number up there and got it to go through, and the lady found out there was another route at 9:20. This was good, as she didn't have cab fare.

    I am just perplexed as to how one can be almost old enough to be my mother and be so helpless. If I were going to the mall without my car, I'd have a ride arranged or the bus schedule memorized, or at least know when the last one left. I'd take my phone with me and have travel money available to me, especially at night. The mind boggles.
    "Is it hot in here to you? It's very warm, isn't it?"--Nero, probably

  • #2
    You'd be surprised. Mom once had to walk a 40 year old through how to use the bus and how to read the schedules because the lady had NEVER ridden on a public bus before. But her car was DOA to a shop and she didn't have good enough insurance for a rental and so had to take the bus.

    Whats nice is the lady goes past a couple places where Mom is either catching or getting off a bus and if she has time will ask Mom if she needs a comfortable ride to her next stop.

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    • #3
      Ugh, at the library we have the bus schedules but people want us to figure it out for them or go online to the bus website and type in the "to" and "from" for them. Or call the bus service for them.

      What also drives me nuts are the service for the disabled (for people blind ill to go to a bus stop). They make an appt. for something while at the library and want to use our phone to schedule a lift for the next day. No, they can't do it from home since when they get home it's too late.
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      • #4
        I guess I can understand needing to learn to use the bus. But to go out on it without at that point having a plan? Wow, that's asking for trouble.
        "Is it hot in here to you? It's very warm, isn't it?"--Nero, probably

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        • #5
          I'm wondering if you are looking at an early case of Alzheimer's or something similar ...

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          • #6
            I get people like that, not quite as helpless, but definately unsure of how to use the bus. A lot of people here lose their licenses because they don't want to discontinue their chemical fun. So they're stuck having to learn to use the bus. Since our bus system barely functions, this is not fun at all.
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            • #7
              Quoth Pixilated View Post
              I'm wondering if you are looking at an early case of Alzheimer's or something similar ...
              I was thinking the same thing. I know certain medicines can scramble one's cognitive abilities.
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              • #8
                Thyroid issues also scramble one's cognitive abilities. Of course the woman could have been one of those who is a chronic case of helpless "someone save me!" Those women do exist.

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                • #9
                  Quoth Akasa View Post
                  Thyroid ... chronic case of helpless "someone save me!" Those women do exist.
                  And men! I worked for one and would not have been surprised in the slightest to hear him sing out from the crapper: "Hey! Need a wipe in here!"
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                  • #10
                    It's called learned helplessness. When people, or even pets, are habitually helped to do even minor things, they eventually lose the ability to fend for themselves.
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                    • #11
                      Sounds like my mall! We have bus stops at 2-entrances and a rack of bus schedules available. The routes have also been the same for years. It doesn't surprise me anymore how many people get themselves stranded after missing the last bus and want me to call them a cab.
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                      • #12
                        Quoth Akasa View Post
                        Thyroid issues also scramble one's cognitive abilities.
                        Oh crap o_O I've been on meds for Hypothyroidism for a couple of years now, and it's possible I've had the condition for 20+ years, undiagnosed until now >_< Well, that would explain some of the *brzzt*zap*kill them*fzzzzzt* occasional weirdness I get from time to time. Remember, boys and girls: there's nothing wrong with talking to the people in your head, just as long as you never lose any arguments!
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                        • #13
                          Quoth EricKei View Post
                          Well, that would explain some of the *brzzt*zap*kill them*fzzzzzt* occasional weirdness I get from time to time.
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                          Quoth EricKei View Post
                          Remember, boys and girls: there's nothing wrong with talking to the people in your head, just as long as you never lose any arguments!
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                          Only semi-intelligent?

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                          • #14
                            Quoth EricKei View Post
                            Oh crap o_O I've been on meds for Hypothyroidism for a couple of years now, and it's possible I've had the condition for 20+ years, undiagnosed until now >_< Well, that would explain some of the *brzzt*zap*kill them*fzzzzzt* occasional weirdness I get from time to time. Remember, boys and girls: there's nothing wrong with talking to the people in your head, just as long as you never lose any arguments!
                            I wonder why my HYPERthyroidism doesn't seem to do that.

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                            • #15
                              Quoth Flyndaran View Post
                              I wonder why my HYPERthyroidism doesn't seem to do that.
                              Lucky bugger skinny person. Hypo~, as you might imagine makes it really easy to gain weight and tough to lose it.
                              "For a musician, the SNES sound engine is like using Crayola Crayons. Nobuo Uematsu used Crayola Crayons to paint the Sistine Chapel." - Jeremy Jahns (re: "Dancing Mad")
                              "The difference between an amateur and a master is that the master has failed way more times." - JoCat
                              "Thinking is difficult, therefore let the herd pronounce judgment!" ~ Carl Jung
                              "There's burning bridges, and then there's the lake just to fill it with gasoline." - Wiccy, reddit
                              "Retail is a cruel master, and could very well be the most educational time of many people's lives, in its own twisted way." - me
                              "Love keeps her in the air when she oughta fall down...tell you she's hurtin' 'fore she keens...makes her a home." - Capt. Malcolm Reynolds, "Serenity" (2005)
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