Continuation of dating advice, online dating with boys, not men

[dalesys]

... there is no question that you have killed two stones with one knee.

idiotting

[Seshat]

And frankly, if the knee in question is applied to the groin in question in public, there is no question that you have killed two whiny bratty children birds in the stones.

Fixed it for you.

[HorrorFrogPrincess]

I've got some pretty interesting responses myself (possibly from the same site).

One was a guy who wanted me to watch him XXX via webcam. Another simply said, "I want to f*** you."

Had a nice laugh on that one. I appreciate honesty. XD

Did meet up with one guy. Boy, was that a disappointment. Now I have to figure out how to say, "I never want to see you again" politely.

[trailerparkmedic]

Now I have to figure out how to say, "I never want to see you again" politely.

"I don't think we're a good match."

Or, if there's a specific thing that you think would kill the relationship, be honest.

"I just can't get past our age difference."

[Rapscallion]

Now I have to figure out how to say, "I never want to see you again" politely.

"What colour should I wear on our wedding, dear?"

Rapscallion

[HorrorFrogPrincess]

"What colour should I wear on our wedding, dear?"

Rapscallion

Dude, he might be okay with that. Hence the ending of.

[Cat]

Now I have to figure out how to say, "I never want to see you again" politely.

"I'm married to the sea."



This is fail if he is a Simpsons fan

[Flying Grype]

I want to do a study someday and find out whether active 'dating' really does result in finding a good long-term relationship sooner than if you just went about your business and met people through common interests. My starting hypothesis is that 'dating' makes you feel like you're keeping busy but doesn't actually find you a partner any sooner.

[Jester]

Now I have to figure out how to say, "I never want to see you again" politely.

Best way to send this message is to just stop responding to him, be it email, texts, or calls. Even the dimmest bulb in the chandelier gets it when they are being blown off.

[blas]

In my opinion, if the person you met/went on a date with is a halfway decent person that you just don't feel a connection or chemistry with, it is courtesy and the best idea to just be honest with them and let them down nicely. If they are truly a halfway decent person, they will take no for no and maybe you can even be friends or help one another in the future.

If the person gave you bad vibes, creeped you out or made you feel uncomfortable, I don't feel you owe that person an explanation.....if you want to be polite, you can, but sometimes that just fuels the fire in really insecure, clingy, and potentially stalkerish people. If anyone ever makes you feel creeped out, you don't have to talk to them ever again.