Please accept my apologies in advance. Tact isn't always something I'm good at.
So you're getting all upset, and starting fights over your husband's expensive hobby, and his response is to say whatever he thinks you want to hear to placate you then continue working at his hobby?
From this point you've got basically two choices. Keep on as you have been and wind up bitter and hating each other, maybe even lose the relationship entirely. Or, suck it up and figure out some way to deal with it. It's clear he loves photography and that he's not going to give it up because you have insecurity issues surrounding his subject matter. At this point, I'd refer you to a trained counselor or therapist to work out ways to deal with it if you decide you want to try to.
Jealousy is a sneaky bitch, and it is flat out a relationship killer. I wound up absolutely trashing a couple of really good relationships over jealousy before I figured out ways to squash it.
So you're getting all upset, and starting fights over your husband's expensive hobby, and his response is to say whatever he thinks you want to hear to placate you then continue working at his hobby?
From this point you've got basically two choices. Keep on as you have been and wind up bitter and hating each other, maybe even lose the relationship entirely. Or, suck it up and figure out some way to deal with it. It's clear he loves photography and that he's not going to give it up because you have insecurity issues surrounding his subject matter. At this point, I'd refer you to a trained counselor or therapist to work out ways to deal with it if you decide you want to try to.
Jealousy is a sneaky bitch, and it is flat out a relationship killer. I wound up absolutely trashing a couple of really good relationships over jealousy before I figured out ways to squash it.
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