I don't know if this will be read, not many of my threads get attention my writing style sucks. It's ok, I just need to write it.
I've been down a lot lately, I've gotten better but it's hard since I have a bit of a social anxiety and depression. The friends I do have around haven't had time for me and the one who does lives too far away to spend time with.
My best friend lives two blocks away and it's like I'm not even worth her time anymore she is too busy going out and having a great time with others. She has a boyfriend now so I rarely get to see her and when we do text it's like I'm just a replacement or there to make her feel better.
I admitted to her a month back when I was really depressed that I was having dark thoughts again and didn't want to live. She told me she would talk to my parents, she knows it's really hard for me to do since I dont want to upset them. Insisted she was going too and I told her I didn't care, I honestly didn't I didn't want to live so what did it matter to me if she told them.
I realize now that maybe she had better things to do and I was just in the way, she was saying it just to shut me up or scare me into not feeling that way. I got home from work later after she had said she would talk to them and heard nothing from my parents. She was having a special night with her boyfriend and her family and was
nervous so I guess she didn't have time to talk to them.
I didn't really talk to anyone for a couple days, four days later she got mad and started to show me how I was treating her while I was online, I wasn't really talking to her that night mostly, yes, no, I guesses. Since I was tired from a long day at work, she asked how I felt being treated like that and I said how upset I was and I was sorry for being such an awful friend lately.
A weekend before she told me that I was attacking her character and she wasn't going to change for anyone when I asked if we could make plans ahead of time since it sucked that I stuck around and didn't do much when I knew she wanted to hang out. She has never been the plan making type, where as I am, I like to at least know what time I'm meeting someone, and it's hard to be the one making the plans all the time. She told me to stop taking my depression out on her.
She didn't talk to my parents to tell them I was depressed and wanting to die, all she asked was if I set up a time to meet with them for her, I told her again that I didn't care either way if she talked to them.
She hasn't brought it up since, maybe I'm not worth saving. I think about it now and I dont get why she waited for me to tell my parents she wanted to talk to them, I live with them now she knows how to reach them. What if I just gave up?
I ended up telling them, it got so bad I gave them knives I have and just broke down crying. It was so hard I could barely talk at all. If I'm not even worth the time to make solid plans with maybe I'm not even worth being around.
I don't want to live where I am anymore, the only ones I have here are my parents, this friend and another both have boyfriends and other friends they hang around with, I guess they outgrew our friendship. I try hard to make new friends but it scares me sometimes. I hate living here so much, I hate my job, I dont even know how you can get so burnt out from dog walking but I am.
I don't have family other then my parents that I'm close to, the one aunt who I was has decided that her new baby nieces are more important. I saw that coming she has always liked little kids more and at 25 I'm not good enough anymore. She even told my parents that I shouldn't expect gifts or cards since she wants to have money to use on the new babies. I don't expect gifts from anyone, you can at least pretend to love me you are my family.
I'm working on therapy again but it's hard since I don't get support, I grew up with a family who is of the 'get over it' attitude my mother doesn't understand why after four appointments I haven't gotten better, I know she loves me and it scares her but I just don't get any support. Only one friend notices when I'm depressed and he isn't even here to notice he can just tell in the way I type. My parents still don't even notice and I stay in their house.
I just feel really alone now.
I've been down a lot lately, I've gotten better but it's hard since I have a bit of a social anxiety and depression. The friends I do have around haven't had time for me and the one who does lives too far away to spend time with.
My best friend lives two blocks away and it's like I'm not even worth her time anymore she is too busy going out and having a great time with others. She has a boyfriend now so I rarely get to see her and when we do text it's like I'm just a replacement or there to make her feel better.
I admitted to her a month back when I was really depressed that I was having dark thoughts again and didn't want to live. She told me she would talk to my parents, she knows it's really hard for me to do since I dont want to upset them. Insisted she was going too and I told her I didn't care, I honestly didn't I didn't want to live so what did it matter to me if she told them.
I realize now that maybe she had better things to do and I was just in the way, she was saying it just to shut me up or scare me into not feeling that way. I got home from work later after she had said she would talk to them and heard nothing from my parents. She was having a special night with her boyfriend and her family and was
nervous so I guess she didn't have time to talk to them.
I didn't really talk to anyone for a couple days, four days later she got mad and started to show me how I was treating her while I was online, I wasn't really talking to her that night mostly, yes, no, I guesses. Since I was tired from a long day at work, she asked how I felt being treated like that and I said how upset I was and I was sorry for being such an awful friend lately.
A weekend before she told me that I was attacking her character and she wasn't going to change for anyone when I asked if we could make plans ahead of time since it sucked that I stuck around and didn't do much when I knew she wanted to hang out. She has never been the plan making type, where as I am, I like to at least know what time I'm meeting someone, and it's hard to be the one making the plans all the time. She told me to stop taking my depression out on her.
She didn't talk to my parents to tell them I was depressed and wanting to die, all she asked was if I set up a time to meet with them for her, I told her again that I didn't care either way if she talked to them.
She hasn't brought it up since, maybe I'm not worth saving. I think about it now and I dont get why she waited for me to tell my parents she wanted to talk to them, I live with them now she knows how to reach them. What if I just gave up?
I ended up telling them, it got so bad I gave them knives I have and just broke down crying. It was so hard I could barely talk at all. If I'm not even worth the time to make solid plans with maybe I'm not even worth being around.
I don't want to live where I am anymore, the only ones I have here are my parents, this friend and another both have boyfriends and other friends they hang around with, I guess they outgrew our friendship. I try hard to make new friends but it scares me sometimes. I hate living here so much, I hate my job, I dont even know how you can get so burnt out from dog walking but I am.
I don't have family other then my parents that I'm close to, the one aunt who I was has decided that her new baby nieces are more important. I saw that coming she has always liked little kids more and at 25 I'm not good enough anymore. She even told my parents that I shouldn't expect gifts or cards since she wants to have money to use on the new babies. I don't expect gifts from anyone, you can at least pretend to love me you are my family.
I'm working on therapy again but it's hard since I don't get support, I grew up with a family who is of the 'get over it' attitude my mother doesn't understand why after four appointments I haven't gotten better, I know she loves me and it scares her but I just don't get any support. Only one friend notices when I'm depressed and he isn't even here to notice he can just tell in the way I type. My parents still don't even notice and I stay in their house.
I just feel really alone now.
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