Some history:
Growing up my mother and I became the black sheep of the family due to dad's bs and lies he told his family to make us look horrible for mom divorcing his sorry behind because of all the drama. So for years we were these horrible horrible people to his side of the family except to granny.
And it wasn't until I went with granny to some of their family functions was it revealed that I'm not this evil person I'm actually well mannered and half of the stuff they were told was lies.
Up to now. I'm still disliked as the trust issues are still there yet now I get black sheep issues with the family I married into. I thought I could escape it by moving from texas. I knew I'd be marrying into some interesting family stuff but not more hypocrisy. To clarify its the mother in law and the extended family on father in law's side. I don't contact them much yet am always courteous when I do speak to them yet they still treat us badly. More angry at how they treat FIL than how they treat me. Its MIL that I loathe for her BS because of what she does to her OWN SON. (not going into detail)
I thought I was strong and mostly impervious to this, so why the **** does it still bother me!?
Advice on how to deal with it without ending up on the news for it. And to clarify no I wouldn't do anything that drastic but I WOULD get a restraining order against these people as I'm done with this.
And yes I have tried very hard to cut them out of my life and its kind of difficult to do so when they keep finding ways to get in just to bother me. And yes I have ignored their messages. Am at the breaking point.
Growing up my mother and I became the black sheep of the family due to dad's bs and lies he told his family to make us look horrible for mom divorcing his sorry behind because of all the drama. So for years we were these horrible horrible people to his side of the family except to granny.
And it wasn't until I went with granny to some of their family functions was it revealed that I'm not this evil person I'm actually well mannered and half of the stuff they were told was lies.
Up to now. I'm still disliked as the trust issues are still there yet now I get black sheep issues with the family I married into. I thought I could escape it by moving from texas. I knew I'd be marrying into some interesting family stuff but not more hypocrisy. To clarify its the mother in law and the extended family on father in law's side. I don't contact them much yet am always courteous when I do speak to them yet they still treat us badly. More angry at how they treat FIL than how they treat me. Its MIL that I loathe for her BS because of what she does to her OWN SON. (not going into detail)
I thought I was strong and mostly impervious to this, so why the **** does it still bother me!?
Advice on how to deal with it without ending up on the news for it. And to clarify no I wouldn't do anything that drastic but I WOULD get a restraining order against these people as I'm done with this.
And yes I have tried very hard to cut them out of my life and its kind of difficult to do so when they keep finding ways to get in just to bother me. And yes I have ignored their messages. Am at the breaking point.
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