yep. pretty much prepared to do that. the only difficult part is that the youngest sis comes to visit alternate weekends and has since the divorce and she often gets made the messenger. So last time I told her please, don't. Don't say it just enjoy your stay here.
Youngest sis has gotten it and the only updates I get are about how well she is doing which is good since she had some job issues a while ago.
Point being, I feel that until I came along it was the impression that "do as mom says to avoid conflict" I brought the idea that the worst she could do is disown you which means no more stress and no more yelling at you, she'll STOP. Everyone has basically moved out so there is no threat and if she does yell. like whiskey said just hang up or walk away
if it helps i can take it to chat?
Youngest sis has gotten it and the only updates I get are about how well she is doing which is good since she had some job issues a while ago.
Point being, I feel that until I came along it was the impression that "do as mom says to avoid conflict" I brought the idea that the worst she could do is disown you which means no more stress and no more yelling at you, she'll STOP. Everyone has basically moved out so there is no threat and if she does yell. like whiskey said just hang up or walk away
if it helps i can take it to chat?
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