Today while working at the toy shop I got a call from my friend Frank. When he told me he had bad news, I figured he was going to tell me that he could not cover my magic shifts the week of my birthday because he had booked out of town shows, or something to that effect.
In the grand scheme of things, that would not really be bad news.
But this was.
His best friend, British Adrian, a guy who had been on the island and been friends with Frank far longer than me, passed away last night.
He had not been sick, per se. He suffered from diabetes, but he had just got back from a skiing trip, and by all accounts, he was totally himself. And then last night...he was gone. Diabetes finally beat him down the slope.
So I went down to the Waterfront Bar, where Adrian had not merely been a regular, but more of a fixture. Hell, he was practically furniture there. And various regulars and friend of Adrians were in different levels of shock. I myself am still not completely at grips with it.
So I bought a couple Coors Lights for Frank and myself. I can't stand the stuff, and Frank almost never drinks beer...but Adrian drank the swill, and this round was in his honor. Hell, he used to joke around with him and tell him that if he really wanted to add some zip to his beer, he should throw in a couple of ice cubes. And Adrian laughed along at the jokes, not only taking them in good humor, but admitting that his choice of beer was, for all intents and purposes, watered down swill. In addition to Coors Light, Adrian also regularly drank Jameson's. Neat. Hell, he even had his own prayer rug for the stuff. Not one that he had at his house to kneel on, mind you. A tiny miniature little rug or carpet, that he placed his Jameson's on while he sipped on it. A tiny little rug that acted as his coaster. I called it his prayer rug. He laughed at the idea.
Adrian had a lot of stories. But the difference between him and most barflies is that his stories were all true. And even if you had a bit of doubt about some of them, they were all, each and every one of them, very interesting and very hilarious. A lot of people can take a ten minute story and turn it into a 35 minute saga. Most of the times, they bore the piss out of you and have you looking for the exit. Adrian would not only turn a short story into an epic, he would have you hanging on every word, laughing your ass off, and pinching your bladder to avoid having to pee so you wouldn't miss any of the story. I am not exaggerating. He may have been the best storyteller I have ever met.
Adrian was but a few years older than me, in his mid-forties I believe. He was an original. He was slow to anger and quick to laugh. He had his faults, as we all do, but I am not embellishing who he was because he has gotten off this ride. This really was who he was. He was often an opinionated asshole. Perhaps that is why he and I got along so well. But he was, in the end, to the end, and from the beginning a genuinely good guy, who had his friends' back and was never boring.
Here's to you, Adrian. I don't know how you drank that crap all these years, but I thank you for not being a fan of Heineken. I don't know that I could have gotten through that. I also know that the Waterfront Bar's owner is going to be wondering why they suddenly don't have to order as much Coors Light or Jameson's as they had been. And that you'll be laughing about it as you ski the heavenly slopes. And, without doubt, that wherever you are, they'll be serving ice cold Coors Lights and healthy pourings of Jameson's.
Here's to you, mate. Thanks for the sweatshirt. Russ still hates me for it.
In the grand scheme of things, that would not really be bad news.
But this was.
His best friend, British Adrian, a guy who had been on the island and been friends with Frank far longer than me, passed away last night.
He had not been sick, per se. He suffered from diabetes, but he had just got back from a skiing trip, and by all accounts, he was totally himself. And then last night...he was gone. Diabetes finally beat him down the slope.
So I went down to the Waterfront Bar, where Adrian had not merely been a regular, but more of a fixture. Hell, he was practically furniture there. And various regulars and friend of Adrians were in different levels of shock. I myself am still not completely at grips with it.
So I bought a couple Coors Lights for Frank and myself. I can't stand the stuff, and Frank almost never drinks beer...but Adrian drank the swill, and this round was in his honor. Hell, he used to joke around with him and tell him that if he really wanted to add some zip to his beer, he should throw in a couple of ice cubes. And Adrian laughed along at the jokes, not only taking them in good humor, but admitting that his choice of beer was, for all intents and purposes, watered down swill. In addition to Coors Light, Adrian also regularly drank Jameson's. Neat. Hell, he even had his own prayer rug for the stuff. Not one that he had at his house to kneel on, mind you. A tiny miniature little rug or carpet, that he placed his Jameson's on while he sipped on it. A tiny little rug that acted as his coaster. I called it his prayer rug. He laughed at the idea.
Adrian had a lot of stories. But the difference between him and most barflies is that his stories were all true. And even if you had a bit of doubt about some of them, they were all, each and every one of them, very interesting and very hilarious. A lot of people can take a ten minute story and turn it into a 35 minute saga. Most of the times, they bore the piss out of you and have you looking for the exit. Adrian would not only turn a short story into an epic, he would have you hanging on every word, laughing your ass off, and pinching your bladder to avoid having to pee so you wouldn't miss any of the story. I am not exaggerating. He may have been the best storyteller I have ever met.
Adrian was but a few years older than me, in his mid-forties I believe. He was an original. He was slow to anger and quick to laugh. He had his faults, as we all do, but I am not embellishing who he was because he has gotten off this ride. This really was who he was. He was often an opinionated asshole. Perhaps that is why he and I got along so well. But he was, in the end, to the end, and from the beginning a genuinely good guy, who had his friends' back and was never boring.
Here's to you, Adrian. I don't know how you drank that crap all these years, but I thank you for not being a fan of Heineken. I don't know that I could have gotten through that. I also know that the Waterfront Bar's owner is going to be wondering why they suddenly don't have to order as much Coors Light or Jameson's as they had been. And that you'll be laughing about it as you ski the heavenly slopes. And, without doubt, that wherever you are, they'll be serving ice cold Coors Lights and healthy pourings of Jameson's.
Here's to you, mate. Thanks for the sweatshirt. Russ still hates me for it.
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