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  • This is hard for me to write

    The wound is still fresh having just been told a couple days ago.

    My last remaining grandmother got diagnosed w/ COPD several months ago.
    Since then she's been on the merry go round of can't breath, try to take meds, can't inhale enough to get it into lungs, still can't breath, panic, call ambulance and go to ER, oxygen levels get increased.

    There's one ER that they particularly are intent to go to, and one they DO NOT want to go to. It's easily the worst hospital in the area.

    Ambulance gets called, told where to take her, grandfather drives to the hospital she was supposed to be taken to... she's not there. He starts calling around and, for the sake of the story lets say the last name is Rossevelt, he gets the bad hospital on the phone and "We don't have a Rossevelt, but we do have a Ross." "What's her birth date?" MM/DD?YYYY" "That's her! That's my wife!"

    He gets to the hospital and basically throws a tantrum. There were guards in the room in case he had to be escorted out, but it DID get the attention of a director. The director ordered more tests and they found blockages in her bronchial tubes.

    They think it's cancer, but she's too frail for a biopsy.... which is to say she's too frail for chemo.

  • #2
    It's sorry I am to hear of this......will be keeping your family in my thoughts.

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    • #3
      I'm so sorry. That's really rough.
      When you start at zero, everything's progress.

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      • #4
        Someone needs to talk to the director of that ambulance company . . .

        I'm sorry, Akasa.

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        • #5
          Lots of hugs! I may not know you personally, but I know what it's like worrying about an ailing grandparent. Hopefully she does well.

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          • #6
            Last night a friend gave me enough funds to get a plane on Aug 18th to go home.
            This morning mom tells me she's been put in hospice and the doctors are saying she has only a few days left.
            /cry

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            • #7
              This morning my mother called me.

              Granma went into hospice today and was given 2-3 days to live.

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              • #8
                ^So sorry to hear that

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                • #9
                  I'm so sorry, Akasa. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
                  "If your day is filled with firefighting, you need to start taking the matches away from the toddlers…” - HM

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                  • #10
                    She passed last night. I was woken up this morning to be told.

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                    • #11
                      Requiem aeternam dona eis, Domine,
                      et lux perpetua luceat eis.
                      Te decet hymnus, Deus, in Sion,
                      et tibi reddetur votum in Jerusalem.
                      Exaudi orationem meam,
                      ad te omnis care veniet.
                      Requiem aeternam dona eis, Domine,
                      et lux perpetua luceat eis.
                      Knowledge is power. Power corrupts. Study hard. Be evil.

                      "I never said I wasn't a horrible person."--Me, almost daily

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                      • #12
                        So many hugs heading your way. x
                        I am so SO glad I was not present for this. There would have been an unpleasant duct tape incident. - Joi

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                        • #13
                          My condolences.
                          I am a Blank Space for spacing purposes, ignore me.
                          In order to treat someone as your equal, you first need to believe both: that they are your equal, and that you are their's.

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                          • #14
                            =\ I'm sorry to hear that. May your grandmother have a peaceful journey amongst the stars.

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                            • #15
                              May she rest in peace. Hugs to you. Please remember that you can talk about it here, if you need to, as much as you need to.
                              When you start at zero, everything's progress.

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