Thanks - I did check local laws and I can't find anything but I think 30 days should suffice.
When he moved in we did give him a laundry list of house rules etc. and went over what we will and will not tolerate.
His parents and grandparents are the worst. His father told him to withold rent one month because he claimed I wasn't feeding him.
His parents pay his rent. He just hands me the cheque on the first of the month.
Ugh. I mostly needed to vent because hubby is a "bury your head in the sand" type of person and figures if he doesn't see it and it doesn't bother him, then it is ok.
The Boy doesn't work for hubby - he doesn't work at all (although I found out his family thinks he is working)
I swear it feels like this past year I got married, moved house and I feel like I suddenly have an 18 (now 19) year old step son who treats me as such. I swear there have been times I have heard him mutter "you're not my mother"
GAH!
Thank you all for the help! I will keep digging through ontario tenancy laws to see what I can find. Might ask my cousin if she knows anyone who might specialise in this type of thing (she's a newly minted lawyer - so some of her friends from school might be in this line)
As for locking up the food: that is basically what we have done. we keep the bare minimum in the house now, which means we don't get to take advantage of some really good sales because we can't keep certain things locked away (ie freezer items) Most of the cereal is actually hiding upstairs in the closet in my office. Actually, my office closet has become a bit of a secondary pantry. There are crackers, breadsticks, homemade jams, tinned fruit, pudding cups, soup and pasta. I will keep some things downstairs but I ration it out.
We learned the hard way- if you buy a case of pudding cups (24 cups!) and leave it in the kitchen, it won't make it 3 days. That is just gross.
When he moved in we did give him a laundry list of house rules etc. and went over what we will and will not tolerate.
His parents and grandparents are the worst. His father told him to withold rent one month because he claimed I wasn't feeding him.
His parents pay his rent. He just hands me the cheque on the first of the month.
Ugh. I mostly needed to vent because hubby is a "bury your head in the sand" type of person and figures if he doesn't see it and it doesn't bother him, then it is ok.
The Boy doesn't work for hubby - he doesn't work at all (although I found out his family thinks he is working)
I swear it feels like this past year I got married, moved house and I feel like I suddenly have an 18 (now 19) year old step son who treats me as such. I swear there have been times I have heard him mutter "you're not my mother"
GAH!
Thank you all for the help! I will keep digging through ontario tenancy laws to see what I can find. Might ask my cousin if she knows anyone who might specialise in this type of thing (she's a newly minted lawyer - so some of her friends from school might be in this line)
As for locking up the food: that is basically what we have done. we keep the bare minimum in the house now, which means we don't get to take advantage of some really good sales because we can't keep certain things locked away (ie freezer items) Most of the cereal is actually hiding upstairs in the closet in my office. Actually, my office closet has become a bit of a secondary pantry. There are crackers, breadsticks, homemade jams, tinned fruit, pudding cups, soup and pasta. I will keep some things downstairs but I ration it out.
We learned the hard way- if you buy a case of pudding cups (24 cups!) and leave it in the kitchen, it won't make it 3 days. That is just gross.
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