I've got a train ticket for My Hometown tomorrow ... brother is already there ... both going to visit mother.
Got a call and an email today: caretaker came in to find mom lying on the floor. She refused to go to the hospital -- insists she did not fall and to be fair, brother sees no indications of a fall (bruising, etc.) He says at this point she cannot walk (even with a walker) without help; she cannot even turn herself over in bed without help.
Now we must, heaven help us, somehow convince her she CANNOT stay in the house, for any length of time, on her own. At best, if she goes to hospital they MIGHT be able to bring her back to where she was a couple of weeks ago and that would at least grant her a little more time in her own home. But she has so far proven very stubborn and I don't know if anything we say will change her mind. Brother thinks that, without 24/7 help, within 3 days there would be some sort of "catastrophic event" that would negate any choice she has in the matter of her future residence.
Got a call and an email today: caretaker came in to find mom lying on the floor. She refused to go to the hospital -- insists she did not fall and to be fair, brother sees no indications of a fall (bruising, etc.) He says at this point she cannot walk (even with a walker) without help; she cannot even turn herself over in bed without help.
Now we must, heaven help us, somehow convince her she CANNOT stay in the house, for any length of time, on her own. At best, if she goes to hospital they MIGHT be able to bring her back to where she was a couple of weeks ago and that would at least grant her a little more time in her own home. But she has so far proven very stubborn and I don't know if anything we say will change her mind. Brother thinks that, without 24/7 help, within 3 days there would be some sort of "catastrophic event" that would negate any choice she has in the matter of her future residence.
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