If I may, I'd like to tell a story of what happened a few weeks ago at the bar. Yes, I understand I was off work and at a bar, where sometimes, bad things happen.
There was a group of about 3 middle aged men, their wives (?) and a couple of younger people around my age. The older men were beyond drunk.
This bar is full of peanuts. Every table has them. The floor is almost always littered with peanuts....but the floors are hardwood...maybe it's good for wood?
I was sitting at a table with my boyfriend and my friend and her fiance, and we were shooting the shit when a flying peanut bounced off my breast and then plopped onto the table. I looked up, and two of the older men high fived each other and started laughing like hyenas. As you can guess.......the men were trying to get the peanut in my cleavage.
I screamed "Which one of you fucking Beach Boys threw the peanut at my boobs?" which my boyfriend overheard and he got right in their faces (he was taller and bigger than all of them). They immediately backed down and panicked, going "We're so sorry! It was just a joke! I mean, we were just fooling around, we weren't aiming at her!" and one of the wives said "You and your crazy girlfriend need to calm down, they didn't do it on purpose!"
We left shortly after, not wanting to be kicked out or arrested. Bf used to live in Madison. He said "It's stupid shit like that that gets people stabbed and shot.....people throwing shit at each other and doing stupid things like that, because someone's not going to find it funny and is going to kick their ass." This isn't the first time we've been somewhere out in public were someone has thrown something at me or him, and my boyfriend will go into protective mode, and the perp in question will immediately back down and panick....or will say "It was just a joke!"......not everyone thinks it's funny.
Which I truly believe. Sometimes people just do not think and throw stuff at people and do just the most silliest things that the wrong person is not going to find it funny or ignore and walk away.
There was a group of about 3 middle aged men, their wives (?) and a couple of younger people around my age. The older men were beyond drunk.
This bar is full of peanuts. Every table has them. The floor is almost always littered with peanuts....but the floors are hardwood...maybe it's good for wood?
I was sitting at a table with my boyfriend and my friend and her fiance, and we were shooting the shit when a flying peanut bounced off my breast and then plopped onto the table. I looked up, and two of the older men high fived each other and started laughing like hyenas. As you can guess.......the men were trying to get the peanut in my cleavage.
I screamed "Which one of you fucking Beach Boys threw the peanut at my boobs?" which my boyfriend overheard and he got right in their faces (he was taller and bigger than all of them). They immediately backed down and panicked, going "We're so sorry! It was just a joke! I mean, we were just fooling around, we weren't aiming at her!" and one of the wives said "You and your crazy girlfriend need to calm down, they didn't do it on purpose!"
We left shortly after, not wanting to be kicked out or arrested. Bf used to live in Madison. He said "It's stupid shit like that that gets people stabbed and shot.....people throwing shit at each other and doing stupid things like that, because someone's not going to find it funny and is going to kick their ass." This isn't the first time we've been somewhere out in public were someone has thrown something at me or him, and my boyfriend will go into protective mode, and the perp in question will immediately back down and panick....or will say "It was just a joke!"......not everyone thinks it's funny.
Which I truly believe. Sometimes people just do not think and throw stuff at people and do just the most silliest things that the wrong person is not going to find it funny or ignore and walk away.
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