Just a few comments from this old puke (41):
1. Like others have said, don't give out personal information while at work. Just make it a habit. Even for cute guys. That way when the guys who creep you out come along, you'll be practiced.
2. You're female. Men are going to look at your chest. Polite? No. Can you stop it? Only by not working around men. Try to take it as a really awkward, poorly worded compliment ... that you have a chest worth staring at.
2a. And, do try to remember that we men are mostly hard-wired to be highly attracted to you women. It's what keep the species going. This isn't an excuse for boorish behavior. Just something to try to keep in mind when you run into the less civilized of us menfolk.
3. Try to work on not being nervous. If this guy is what you think he is, he feeds on it. Your nervousness gives him some kind of sick pleasure. Take that away and he'll lose interest.
1. Like others have said, don't give out personal information while at work. Just make it a habit. Even for cute guys. That way when the guys who creep you out come along, you'll be practiced.
2. You're female. Men are going to look at your chest. Polite? No. Can you stop it? Only by not working around men. Try to take it as a really awkward, poorly worded compliment ... that you have a chest worth staring at.
2a. And, do try to remember that we men are mostly hard-wired to be highly attracted to you women. It's what keep the species going. This isn't an excuse for boorish behavior. Just something to try to keep in mind when you run into the less civilized of us menfolk.
3. Try to work on not being nervous. If this guy is what you think he is, he feeds on it. Your nervousness gives him some kind of sick pleasure. Take that away and he'll lose interest.
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