I recently sold some items. I always arrange to meet people in a public place; store lot, gas station, etc. This last time, the items were really popular; lots of calls, but no purchase. A lady finally wanted to see then right away and asked if I could come over as she was new to the area and didn't know any of the places I was describing to meet. I was wary; could it be a ploy? She gave me her address; I saw that as a sign of trust and the address was only 5-minutes away. But, the address was also for a bad part of town on a street that is seen often in police reports. Now I'm torn; I hear kids in the background and figure she just can't bundle up all the kids and go out to meet me, and she seems kind of flustered. So I took the chance. I only took my license and car key and parked my car several houses away. I debated about this, but also concealed my handgun and had my carry permit; this is where I felt weird. I FELT like a criminal, and figured I was being paranoid, but this is why I took training and did research - so I could protect myself. I called her before I got to the door to let her know I was there, hoping we could meet on the porch, but she invited me in and it was dark and cold out.
And it was all ok. She had 4 kids who LOVED what I had listed and wanted all of them. They had just moved there that week and she honestly didn't know their way around. She was still waiting for the furniture to come even! The husband/boyfriend looked like tough guy, but was really friendly. So I felt SOOOO guilty afterwards know I had a gun when she was the nicest lady in the world and kids were adorable! But she took a risk too, inviting someone off the internet into her home with her kids. Geeze, who knew Craigslist would take such a psychological toll? I feel weird about it, and sad that I couldn't trust more.
And it was all ok. She had 4 kids who LOVED what I had listed and wanted all of them. They had just moved there that week and she honestly didn't know their way around. She was still waiting for the furniture to come even! The husband/boyfriend looked like tough guy, but was really friendly. So I felt SOOOO guilty afterwards know I had a gun when she was the nicest lady in the world and kids were adorable! But she took a risk too, inviting someone off the internet into her home with her kids. Geeze, who knew Craigslist would take such a psychological toll? I feel weird about it, and sad that I couldn't trust more.
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