Not that I'm a big partier or someone who loves going out anyway, but after what happend to my friend last night, I'll never go to this bar again either if this is how they handle lecherous men who dance on girls.
My friend and some of her coworkers all went out to this bar after the Packer game. They like to all dance together, like girls do.
Some random drunk guy thought that it was an open invitation for him to come up and try dancing on them. They didn't like it, so they kind of wiggled away and hoped he got the message. He didn't, and he kept continuing to try to dance on one of my friend's coworkers, so the girl pushed him away from her.
The bouncer came along and told my friend and all of her friends that they had to leave. The creeper got to stay, and my friends all got kicked out for not wanting to dance with a random creepy drunk guy.
On the rare occasion that I go out, if my bf isn't around or it's just me and the girls, if random guys try to dance on me, I do the same thing. You get one warning, if the guy doesn't appear too drunk, I'll say no, if he looks really drunk, I'll just wiggle away and hope he gets the message. If he continues (and if it isn't dancing, just guys who keep trolling for your number or try to talk to you) then I get physical and give them a shove to get away from me. Everyone gets a warning, then I'm done and you're getting away from me right now. Not like I ever hurt anyone, and I doubt my friend's coworker even did more than push him just to get him away.
No way in hell a bar that values creepy drunk guys is getting my business.
My friend and some of her coworkers all went out to this bar after the Packer game. They like to all dance together, like girls do.
Some random drunk guy thought that it was an open invitation for him to come up and try dancing on them. They didn't like it, so they kind of wiggled away and hoped he got the message. He didn't, and he kept continuing to try to dance on one of my friend's coworkers, so the girl pushed him away from her.
The bouncer came along and told my friend and all of her friends that they had to leave. The creeper got to stay, and my friends all got kicked out for not wanting to dance with a random creepy drunk guy.
On the rare occasion that I go out, if my bf isn't around or it's just me and the girls, if random guys try to dance on me, I do the same thing. You get one warning, if the guy doesn't appear too drunk, I'll say no, if he looks really drunk, I'll just wiggle away and hope he gets the message. If he continues (and if it isn't dancing, just guys who keep trolling for your number or try to talk to you) then I get physical and give them a shove to get away from me. Everyone gets a warning, then I'm done and you're getting away from me right now. Not like I ever hurt anyone, and I doubt my friend's coworker even did more than push him just to get him away.
No way in hell a bar that values creepy drunk guys is getting my business.
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