Asked for a loan and got hassled?!?
I recently asked for a $20.00 loan and got hassled on it. I asked a family member for a loan and they responded with "don't YOU have money? Where did it get to?" I was pissed. Here's the backstory:
I received a nice inheritence. And before the check had time to "cool off" in the bank this is what happened. I lent money to the famy for:
A french mini bulldog pure bred $500.00 (Younger cousins "had" to have this dog)
$4000 for older cousin and husband to move into new place. Paid for move in fees, dog fee, plus first month rent
They paid me back THEN re borrowed it again because cousins hubby screwed up on a bill
Gave $500 for a mattress that they decided they didn't like
Paid for french bulldog to be neutered
Paid to have family members shih-tzu's broken jaw to be fixed. He picked a fight with one of our large dogs and he got worked over pretty bad.
Paid for dog teeth cleaning plus extraction (family dog [uncles])
Paid for a transmission when truck decided to act up (got 9 flavors of hell when I told my uncle to improve upkeep on cars)
Paid for a rental car
Lent money for a venqulitrist doll for older cousin (2nd one, he bought the first one)
At least I got 3 things out of my inheritence:
A trip to Disneyland
A nintendo 3ds XL
An android tablet.
And I ask for $20.00 loan... I get bitched at
I already accepted that I'm NOT seeing my other money (last time I brought it up it caused a nuclear war).
Hubby says I'm too sweet. We both love the family, but he said A line must be drawn.
I even gave $3.00 to a homeless man and next time he saw me... He paid me back...,
I recently asked for a $20.00 loan and got hassled on it. I asked a family member for a loan and they responded with "don't YOU have money? Where did it get to?" I was pissed. Here's the backstory:
I received a nice inheritence. And before the check had time to "cool off" in the bank this is what happened. I lent money to the famy for:
A french mini bulldog pure bred $500.00 (Younger cousins "had" to have this dog)
$4000 for older cousin and husband to move into new place. Paid for move in fees, dog fee, plus first month rent
They paid me back THEN re borrowed it again because cousins hubby screwed up on a bill
Gave $500 for a mattress that they decided they didn't like
Paid for french bulldog to be neutered
Paid to have family members shih-tzu's broken jaw to be fixed. He picked a fight with one of our large dogs and he got worked over pretty bad.
Paid for dog teeth cleaning plus extraction (family dog [uncles])
Paid for a transmission when truck decided to act up (got 9 flavors of hell when I told my uncle to improve upkeep on cars)
Paid for a rental car
Lent money for a venqulitrist doll for older cousin (2nd one, he bought the first one)
At least I got 3 things out of my inheritence:
A trip to Disneyland
A nintendo 3ds XL
An android tablet.
And I ask for $20.00 loan... I get bitched at
I already accepted that I'm NOT seeing my other money (last time I brought it up it caused a nuclear war).
Hubby says I'm too sweet. We both love the family, but he said A line must be drawn.
I even gave $3.00 to a homeless man and next time he saw me... He paid me back...,
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