AHHHHHHHHHHHH!

[Teysa]

*Hugs* I'm sorry you're having to go through all this. Have you thought about getting a job with your husband as a remote lodge caretaker somewhere? You'd probably deal more with wildlife than people and you and your husband would get the chance to spend some quality time together.

[Tama]

Jack Nicholson and an ax sound friendlier than the shithole you're trying to deal with right now. Geez.

[Shalom]

I created all the standards that belong to this front desk and housekeeping from scratch. Hours and hours I've worked.

Take them with you if/when you leave.

Let whoever they replace you with figure it out themselves, the way you had to.

[cindybubbles]

Give your notice. Then do the bare minimum at your job until your last day. This job is not worth risking your life and/or health for, anyway.

[LabCat]

I just walked away from a job that I had for 9 years. Politics turned my workplace into toxic, draining drudgery. My immediate supervisor was such a weasel, I hesitated to leave because of pride. "I couldn't let this turd run me off" I said to myself, but it got to the point where I felt like my life was getting sucked out of me. Those hard last years taught me something: never get emotionally attached to a job, never let pride for your work get in the way of escaping a toxic environment.

[KuariKaydrith]

I'm going to second Labcat.

The stress that can come from getting attached to a job that turns toxic is a horrible thing to force yourself to go through. If not the mental health issues, then the method you use to deal with that stress - I know that it's time to leave a job when I self-medicate with booze after every shift. I'm not supposed to drink, but when I get to the point that it's the only way to unwind after a shitty shift it's not a good scene.

[mhkohne]

I just walked away from a job that I had for 9 years. Politics turned my workplace into toxic, draining drudgery. My immediate supervisor was such a weasel, I hesitated to leave because of pride. "I couldn't let this turd run me off" I said to myself, but it got to the point where I felt like my life was getting sucked out of me. Those hard last years taught me something: never get emotionally attached to a job, never let pride for your work get in the way of escaping a toxic environment.

Yes. You can like your job, but remember that your employer is NOT emotionally attached to you - if you get emotionally attached to them, you hand them a tool with which they can abuse you.