I'm on a dating site, and I've had quite a few guys contact me, almost always for the wrong reasons - well, wrong for me, anyway.
Yesterday, a guy contacted me who actually lives here, and he seems to be an okay person (and, yes, good-looking). He said he liked my profile very much. He wanted to know my name, and I told him I'd rather wait a little while before giving it to him. His username on the site is his real name, so I have an advantage there.
I suggested that we message a little while, then, if we're both interested, we can meet. He agreed. Now, he wants my phone number.
I've been involved with all the wrong guys in my life, and I don't know how it works with other guys, online or in person. Does online always move this fast? I've had a few guys give me their personal email addresses so I could email them rather than using the site, but I never did; I wanted to maintain anonymity on both sides until we knew each other better.
This guy seems eager to get to know me better, and vice versa. I'm just not used to the whole thing, and I'd like advice.
Yesterday, a guy contacted me who actually lives here, and he seems to be an okay person (and, yes, good-looking). He said he liked my profile very much. He wanted to know my name, and I told him I'd rather wait a little while before giving it to him. His username on the site is his real name, so I have an advantage there.
I suggested that we message a little while, then, if we're both interested, we can meet. He agreed. Now, he wants my phone number.
I've been involved with all the wrong guys in my life, and I don't know how it works with other guys, online or in person. Does online always move this fast? I've had a few guys give me their personal email addresses so I could email them rather than using the site, but I never did; I wanted to maintain anonymity on both sides until we knew each other better.
This guy seems eager to get to know me better, and vice versa. I'm just not used to the whole thing, and I'd like advice.
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