I'm so stressed and pissed off right now. You can see my last thread to see one of the reasons why. The fact that I'm about to be fired from my job. Other reasons:
For over a year I have been dealing with severe sinus headaches, often accompanied by ear and throat pain. The headaches get so bad that my teeth hurt. My ears frequently fill up with fluid, sometimes so bad that I can't hear out of one ear. I have to have tissues with me wherever I go. At work I have to have a pile of napkins at my register. I sleep with a roll of toilet paper because I have to blow/wipe my nose so much. I have tried every single OTC drug available on the market. Even the old stuff that they keep hidden behind the counter. Even the sinus cleanse Neti Pot that everyone swears by. Nothing helps. SOMETIMES if I take a glass of warm water, put salt in it, and sniff some directly up my nose, it relieves the pain for a few minutes. But it's not a particularly a fun thing to, and it doesn't really work anymore.
I went to the doctor and he gave me pills and sprays to try that did NOTHING. He took some sinus X-rays that revealed I had a nasty infection. I was given antibiotics, but the pain persisted. He then tried OTHER antibiotics. Pain persisted. So then I had a cat scan, which cost 400 bucks. That revealed...nothing. It showed that the infection was gone. Apparently the antibiotics cured it. Well then...why have I still been in as much pain as ever? So then the doctor gave me another medication to try which, you guessed it, did nothing.
So here's where I'm at right now. I'm having horrible sinus headaches, and just horrible head pain in general. Over the eyes, in the cheeks, temples, back of the head into the neck and into my teeth, ears, and throat. I have to cough and blow my nose all the time. I'm miserable. But I have nowhere else to turn. I have barely ANY healthcare right now. I can't afford to go back to the doctor to see if there's something else to try or have them run another 400 dollar test.
This problem makes me so miserable and whiny that tonight my dad blew up at me since he's already under a ton of stress (I'll get to that). He called me a "goddamn hypochondriac" and told me that I should just move out if I love being sick so much and want to go to the doctor for "every little thing". He concluded the shouting match by informing me that "life is supposed to be painful, toughen up and deal with it." What a fucking asshole. Most of my problems are caused by stress. One of the reasons I've grown into such a stressed out person? I grew up with HIM yelling at me all the fucking time. No wonder my brother moved to the other side of the country! So basically, me being in excruciating pain annoys and inconvenences my father and he resents it.
So why is my families' healthcare situations so bad? Why is my dad so fucking stressed out? He's a General Motors retiree. Yeah. My dad slaved away at a miserable job that he hated for 30 years because he was promised a pension, great healthcare, etc. When GM goes bankrupt, my dad is going to LOSE his pension and what meager so-called "healthcare" we have right now. And of course, he'll have to find a new job. Which means that we will have to try to sell our house (haha, sell a house in Michigan?) and move. The only bright spot is that our house is paid off. So basically, we can starve to death in our house. So yeah, my dad is stressing the fuck out every day and trying to hold it in and hide it. Then he unleashes it on me when he sees me struggling with my head problem. He can't afford to get me to a doctor, I make minimum wage and I can't afford to get myself to a doctor. So he's resentful and calls me "hypochondriac" who "invents problems". So I have to not only worry about what the hell my parents are going to do in the future, I have to try to deal with my own shit.
So basically I'm in a lot of pain right now and there's nothing I or anyone else can do about it. My family is in a ton of fucking stress because of this pension thing and the healthcare thing. We went from very well off to broke just like THAT. My mom can't even afford to have yearly physicals anymore, which really worries me. My dad needs surgery on his foot but is trying to ignore the problem because he can't afford the doctors' visits. Basically everything's fucked the hell up.
Another stressful point for me right now is that a couple years ago I was diagnosed with pelvic floor disfunction disorder. Which basically means that I am always constipated and I can never empty my bladder. They taught me excercises that cured me, but the problem came back. Now I can't afford to go back. I have to try and do the excercises on my own, but it's extremely difficult to do remember to do them dilligently enough and for long enough. The other night I freaked out and started sobbing because I read that people with this disorder have excruciating pain during sex, so they are unable to have sex. That just hit me like a ton of bricks. Scares the shit out of me. Some 21 year old woman I am. I can't piss, I can't crap, and as likely as not, I can't have sex.
Damn, my head is throbbing while I'm trying to type. Tonight it hurt so bad that I cried. But I'm going to have to just get used to it. Become a masochist and learn to love it. Because the only way I'm getting anywhere near a doctor's office is if I rob a bank or auction off a kidney.
For over a year I have been dealing with severe sinus headaches, often accompanied by ear and throat pain. The headaches get so bad that my teeth hurt. My ears frequently fill up with fluid, sometimes so bad that I can't hear out of one ear. I have to have tissues with me wherever I go. At work I have to have a pile of napkins at my register. I sleep with a roll of toilet paper because I have to blow/wipe my nose so much. I have tried every single OTC drug available on the market. Even the old stuff that they keep hidden behind the counter. Even the sinus cleanse Neti Pot that everyone swears by. Nothing helps. SOMETIMES if I take a glass of warm water, put salt in it, and sniff some directly up my nose, it relieves the pain for a few minutes. But it's not a particularly a fun thing to, and it doesn't really work anymore.
I went to the doctor and he gave me pills and sprays to try that did NOTHING. He took some sinus X-rays that revealed I had a nasty infection. I was given antibiotics, but the pain persisted. He then tried OTHER antibiotics. Pain persisted. So then I had a cat scan, which cost 400 bucks. That revealed...nothing. It showed that the infection was gone. Apparently the antibiotics cured it. Well then...why have I still been in as much pain as ever? So then the doctor gave me another medication to try which, you guessed it, did nothing.
So here's where I'm at right now. I'm having horrible sinus headaches, and just horrible head pain in general. Over the eyes, in the cheeks, temples, back of the head into the neck and into my teeth, ears, and throat. I have to cough and blow my nose all the time. I'm miserable. But I have nowhere else to turn. I have barely ANY healthcare right now. I can't afford to go back to the doctor to see if there's something else to try or have them run another 400 dollar test.
This problem makes me so miserable and whiny that tonight my dad blew up at me since he's already under a ton of stress (I'll get to that). He called me a "goddamn hypochondriac" and told me that I should just move out if I love being sick so much and want to go to the doctor for "every little thing". He concluded the shouting match by informing me that "life is supposed to be painful, toughen up and deal with it." What a fucking asshole. Most of my problems are caused by stress. One of the reasons I've grown into such a stressed out person? I grew up with HIM yelling at me all the fucking time. No wonder my brother moved to the other side of the country! So basically, me being in excruciating pain annoys and inconvenences my father and he resents it.
So why is my families' healthcare situations so bad? Why is my dad so fucking stressed out? He's a General Motors retiree. Yeah. My dad slaved away at a miserable job that he hated for 30 years because he was promised a pension, great healthcare, etc. When GM goes bankrupt, my dad is going to LOSE his pension and what meager so-called "healthcare" we have right now. And of course, he'll have to find a new job. Which means that we will have to try to sell our house (haha, sell a house in Michigan?) and move. The only bright spot is that our house is paid off. So basically, we can starve to death in our house. So yeah, my dad is stressing the fuck out every day and trying to hold it in and hide it. Then he unleashes it on me when he sees me struggling with my head problem. He can't afford to get me to a doctor, I make minimum wage and I can't afford to get myself to a doctor. So he's resentful and calls me "hypochondriac" who "invents problems". So I have to not only worry about what the hell my parents are going to do in the future, I have to try to deal with my own shit.
So basically I'm in a lot of pain right now and there's nothing I or anyone else can do about it. My family is in a ton of fucking stress because of this pension thing and the healthcare thing. We went from very well off to broke just like THAT. My mom can't even afford to have yearly physicals anymore, which really worries me. My dad needs surgery on his foot but is trying to ignore the problem because he can't afford the doctors' visits. Basically everything's fucked the hell up.
Another stressful point for me right now is that a couple years ago I was diagnosed with pelvic floor disfunction disorder. Which basically means that I am always constipated and I can never empty my bladder. They taught me excercises that cured me, but the problem came back. Now I can't afford to go back. I have to try and do the excercises on my own, but it's extremely difficult to do remember to do them dilligently enough and for long enough. The other night I freaked out and started sobbing because I read that people with this disorder have excruciating pain during sex, so they are unable to have sex. That just hit me like a ton of bricks. Scares the shit out of me. Some 21 year old woman I am. I can't piss, I can't crap, and as likely as not, I can't have sex.
Damn, my head is throbbing while I'm trying to type. Tonight it hurt so bad that I cried. But I'm going to have to just get used to it. Become a masochist and learn to love it. Because the only way I'm getting anywhere near a doctor's office is if I rob a bank or auction off a kidney.
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