You'll have to forgive me if I don't make a lot of sense and ramble in this post. I've been crying and my fingers are still shaking.
The Millie crisis is over, she's gone and has been officially for a few days. Unfortunately, a personal crisis has taken that crisis's place.
My husband works in a physical therapy/rehab center as a receptionist/intake counselor. Today he collapsed at work and was sent to the hospital. I had some trouble getting up there, since 1) I was at work and couldn't leave until my CW Joe took over, 2) I can't drive (obviously), and had to take a bus to the hospital the hubs was sent to (in the next county over, which is where he works).
About three hours from when I initially got the call later, I arrive at the hospital and have to wait another two hours before a doctor comes to talk to me. I wasn't worried; it's busy, and I assume the hubs only collapsed due to lack of sleep, hunger, dehydration, or any combo of the three because he's so busy all the time.
The news was much different. The doc told me apparently The Dane didn't just collapse, he had a seizure. Since he'd never had a seizure before, they were looking into possible causes. However, the doc said, they were almost certain it was a brain tumor from the MRI, and my husband was in surgery so they could confirm. The doctor then proceeded to tell me they were thinking it was a oligoastrocytoma, or some other glioma (I did my research when I got home, and apparently, that's bad). It's rare, especially given The Dane's age (he's 23), and he also said a bunch of stuff about it possibly being low grade, and the seizure only occurring because of the location, but they won't know till the biopsy's done.
Christ. I eventually went home because there's not much I can do till the results come back, which should be sometime tomorrow, most likely. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, and calling off tomorrow so I can see my husband (he was still in surgery when I left). My friends are over, my mom is flying up, and I'm still trying to get in touch with his mom and/or stepdad.
Honestly, does someone hate me and The Dane or something? If it's not one thing, it's another. I think getting married caused some goddamned cosmic shift in the universe and someone is slinging handfuls of shit into our cosmic fan.
The Millie crisis is over, she's gone and has been officially for a few days. Unfortunately, a personal crisis has taken that crisis's place.
My husband works in a physical therapy/rehab center as a receptionist/intake counselor. Today he collapsed at work and was sent to the hospital. I had some trouble getting up there, since 1) I was at work and couldn't leave until my CW Joe took over, 2) I can't drive (obviously), and had to take a bus to the hospital the hubs was sent to (in the next county over, which is where he works).
About three hours from when I initially got the call later, I arrive at the hospital and have to wait another two hours before a doctor comes to talk to me. I wasn't worried; it's busy, and I assume the hubs only collapsed due to lack of sleep, hunger, dehydration, or any combo of the three because he's so busy all the time.
The news was much different. The doc told me apparently The Dane didn't just collapse, he had a seizure. Since he'd never had a seizure before, they were looking into possible causes. However, the doc said, they were almost certain it was a brain tumor from the MRI, and my husband was in surgery so they could confirm. The doctor then proceeded to tell me they were thinking it was a oligoastrocytoma, or some other glioma (I did my research when I got home, and apparently, that's bad). It's rare, especially given The Dane's age (he's 23), and he also said a bunch of stuff about it possibly being low grade, and the seizure only occurring because of the location, but they won't know till the biopsy's done.
Christ. I eventually went home because there's not much I can do till the results come back, which should be sometime tomorrow, most likely. I'm keeping my fingers crossed, and calling off tomorrow so I can see my husband (he was still in surgery when I left). My friends are over, my mom is flying up, and I'm still trying to get in touch with his mom and/or stepdad.
Honestly, does someone hate me and The Dane or something? If it's not one thing, it's another. I think getting married caused some goddamned cosmic shift in the universe and someone is slinging handfuls of shit into our cosmic fan.
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