I have no idea how in the heck to approach men. I tend to blame it on a few bad experiences in High School where boys asked me out just so they could laugh at me when I said yes. Since starting university I have been on two dates, one April of my first year, and one October of last year.
The thing is, I have no clue how one is supposed to get from the point of meeting a guy for the first time and asking them out. I know if a guy asked me out two seconds after meeting me, I'd turn him down on principal. I lucked out with the guys I did date, because one had a mutual friend who acquainted us, while I met the other one at a Residence Dance.
A lot of my friend say I'm a "Natural Flirt". I apparently am always flirting with guys without my knowledge. This is a problem because; A) most guys think I'm flirting with them when I'm not, and B) guys I do like assume I'm just acting like I always do.
So how do I approach a guy with the eventual intention of asking him out? How do I make sure I get my point across without seeming forward, or him thinking I'm just being friendly?
Help please.
The thing is, I have no clue how one is supposed to get from the point of meeting a guy for the first time and asking them out. I know if a guy asked me out two seconds after meeting me, I'd turn him down on principal. I lucked out with the guys I did date, because one had a mutual friend who acquainted us, while I met the other one at a Residence Dance.
A lot of my friend say I'm a "Natural Flirt". I apparently am always flirting with guys without my knowledge. This is a problem because; A) most guys think I'm flirting with them when I'm not, and B) guys I do like assume I'm just acting like I always do.
So how do I approach a guy with the eventual intention of asking him out? How do I make sure I get my point across without seeming forward, or him thinking I'm just being friendly?
Help please.
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