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  • Stop Following Me!!!

    Guh.

    On the way to work this morning, I got dropped off by the bus and proceeded, as always, to walk to the store, which is about a block and a half, hell only 5 minutes (0.2 miles according to google maps...)

    As I approach another bus stop along the way I see a man, dressed all in black with a red baseball cap and carrying a large stick, kind of like a dowel you find at craft stores, easily 2 to 2.5 feet long. Nope, not weird at all.

    He asks me if I know when the next bus runs, I tell him I don't catch that line, but if he goes to the previous stop just a few feet away, they have posters of the estimated scheduled times along all the routes that stop serves.

    He starts following me instead! Telling me how he was attacked by this huge scary red pit bull and that he was seriously freaking out, punctuating his statements by swinging the stick. I start walking a little faster...and he keeps following me, trying to engage me in conversation.

    At one point, he explained he'd been bitten by a Rottweiler as a kid and it really messed him up, and proceeds to strip his shirt off to show me.

    I am at this point ignoring him, but he speeds up and starts walking next to me.

    Him: hey, you walkin'?
    Me: yup.
    Him: where you walkin' to, how long you goin'? I can keep you company.
    Me: No. I'm just walking to work.
    Him: Where you work.
    Me: <I wave in the general vicinity of the store> Just up ahead, I'm almost there! (thank you gods!)

    I hurry across the street, unlock the doors and rush inside. As I turn around to lock the doors, he's crossing the street and heading for the building!

    It's at this point I duck into the back, run up to my boss' office and tell her to hide me. I explain what happened and just sit in her office chair, shaking a little. This is the same path I took when I was attacked/fondled/something worse was attempted a couple years back, so yeah...

    I went back downstairs to let one of the cashiers in, who also rides the bus, and asked her if she saw the guy I described and she said no, so hopefully he's not coming back, but geez. >.<

    Maybe I overreacted some, but the way he kept swinging the stick, and the fact that he wouldn't leave me alone, speeding up when I sped up and all that had me more than a little nervouse...

    Now I'm all nervous and twitchy for the day.

  • #2
    I'd be nervous if some random guy started walking next to me swinging a stick too. Asking about the bus seemed normal, but asking where you work and wanting to walk you there...?

    I don't think you overreacted at all.
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    • #3
      You definitely didn't overreact; you listened to your intuition. I don't know what it is about your state and creepers, but there are so many of them. (I used to live in that state and get all kinds of junk.
      "Is it hot in here to you? It's very warm, isn't it?"--Nero, probably

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      • #4
        Quoth lupo pazzesco View Post
        At one point, he explained he'd been bitten by a Rottweiler as a kid and it really messed him up, and proceeds to strip his shirt off to show me.
        "Yeah, I got attacked by this weird guy on the street one time, so I understand carrying protection. That's why I carry mace. Hey, you know, you're kind of a weird guy." Reach into purse. "You're gonna want to start walking very fast in a different direction now."
        "You are loved" - Plaidman.

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        • #5
          o___o
          Nope! No over-reaction there Lupo! I'd've done the same thing! :eep:
          "Is it the lie that keeps you sane? Is this the lie that keeps you sane?What is it?Can it be?Ought it to exist?"
          "...and may it be that I cleave to the ugly truth, rather than the beautiful lie..."

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          • #6
            Definately made the right call.

            If you were wrong, no harm done. He'll get over it.

            If you were right, you protected yourself. As well you should.

            Gut instinct is usually right on the money. I'm glad you listened to yours.
            They say that God only gives us what we can handle. Apparently, God thinks I'm a bad ass.

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            • #7
              No overreacting at all, you did the right thing in getting into work as quickly as you could.
              Quote Dalesys:
              ... as in "Ifn thet dawg comes at me, Ima gonna shutz ma panz!"

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              • #8
                I'm usually the one to say "don't overreact", but I do not blame you one bit for being freaked out. I would feel exactly the same way!!

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                • #9
                  I like Kara's idea!

                  No, you did not overreact. He would have my creep radar redline.
                  When you start at zero, everything's progress.

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                  • #10
                    I don't blame you for the way you reacted to the situation. That kind of shit would've freaked me the hell out to be honest.
                    I don't get paid enough to kiss your a**! -Groezig 5/31/08
                    Another day...another million braincells lost...-Sarlon 6/16/08
                    Chivalry is not dead. It's just direly underappreciated. -Samaliel 9/15/09

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                    • #11
                      Nope..no overreaction.

                      Unfortunately, he now knows where you work, though.

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                      • #12
                        That is not overreacting, I would have given him a full view of a side arm. You stated that you were attacked before so being cautious is understandable.
                        Last edited by pitmonkey; 05-06-2011, 06:22 AM. Reason: spelling
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                        • #13
                          any time my neck hairs got raised when walking/busing alone: I went to a public place like Arby's or Grocery Store or such. And would tell PIC that Schmucko was following me, I needed to hang out for a bit til he left.

                          Did it a few times. Did great honestly.
                          In my heart, in my soul, I'm a woman for rock & roll.
                          She's as fast as slugs on barbituates.

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                          • #14
                            That wasn't creepy; that was CREEPy.......

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                            • #15
                              I see only one problem. You said you had to unlock the doors to get in. That was precious time when you were vulnerable.

                              If there was anywhere at roughly equal (or closer) distance than work, where there is security, go there instead. A police station is perfect. Fire station, even ambulance station. Hospital. Gas station or convenience store with security doors and a silent alarm. Shopping centre.

                              Failing that, go to lights-and-people. Any sort of lights-and-people.

                              Or - call ahead to work, and ask for someone to meet you at the door, with the door already unlocked, so you can get in and there's two of you.


                              But yeah - not overreacting. If anything, underreacting.
                              Seshat's self-help guide:
                              1. Would you rather be right, or get the result you want?
                              2. If you're consistently getting results you don't want, change what you do.
                              3. Deal with the situation you have now, however it occurred.
                              4. Accept the consequences of your decisions.

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