I know I haven't been active on here lately - life is kicking my butt. And it's winning.
2 Main things I have to deal with; the business and Hubs.
One thing that I did differently this year is that I picked up a lot of new shows in the spring and summer. I normally don't start doing shows until Really Big Craft Show. Sadly, even though I made sure to have a lot of less-expensive things, I haven't sold anything. All year. Between paying booth rent, gas and donations (of course each show I did required every vendor to donate something for a charity raffle) I'm out $1,500 already.
Because I haven't sold anything, I'm really nervous about Really Big Craft Show. I know if I don't sell anything, not only will I lose time and money, but my Mom and Gma will have all day to complain about how my prices are too high and what a terrible person I am. So I am still working my butt off, but I'm more anxious about this show then I've ever been before. I've decided that if I can't sell anything, I'm better off donating my fabric and closing up shop.
And then there's Hubs. Now that both kids are in school, he seems to think that I have nothing to do all day. He's stopped doing anything at all around the house. I've tried telling him that I'm working during the day too - but he says that his job provides for us and mine is a waste of time. So now I'm stuck running all the errands and doing all the cooking and cleaning. He'll even complain if things aren't done exactly how he wants it. It's gotten to the point that he gets up, gets dressed and plays on the computer until I get the kids up, dressed and fed. After I pick him up from work, then it's back on the computer until he decides he wants to go to bed. It's like I have 2 little kids and a surly teenager.
I've tried talking to him about it, but it just doesn't work. And to be honest, I'm tired of everything being a fight. Right now I'm planning to get done everything I can for Really Big Craft Show, then afterwards I will make sure the house is spotless. If he can't straighten up, I'm planning in January to leave.
2 Main things I have to deal with; the business and Hubs.
One thing that I did differently this year is that I picked up a lot of new shows in the spring and summer. I normally don't start doing shows until Really Big Craft Show. Sadly, even though I made sure to have a lot of less-expensive things, I haven't sold anything. All year. Between paying booth rent, gas and donations (of course each show I did required every vendor to donate something for a charity raffle) I'm out $1,500 already.
Because I haven't sold anything, I'm really nervous about Really Big Craft Show. I know if I don't sell anything, not only will I lose time and money, but my Mom and Gma will have all day to complain about how my prices are too high and what a terrible person I am. So I am still working my butt off, but I'm more anxious about this show then I've ever been before. I've decided that if I can't sell anything, I'm better off donating my fabric and closing up shop.
And then there's Hubs. Now that both kids are in school, he seems to think that I have nothing to do all day. He's stopped doing anything at all around the house. I've tried telling him that I'm working during the day too - but he says that his job provides for us and mine is a waste of time. So now I'm stuck running all the errands and doing all the cooking and cleaning. He'll even complain if things aren't done exactly how he wants it. It's gotten to the point that he gets up, gets dressed and plays on the computer until I get the kids up, dressed and fed. After I pick him up from work, then it's back on the computer until he decides he wants to go to bed. It's like I have 2 little kids and a surly teenager.
I've tried talking to him about it, but it just doesn't work. And to be honest, I'm tired of everything being a fight. Right now I'm planning to get done everything I can for Really Big Craft Show, then afterwards I will make sure the house is spotless. If he can't straighten up, I'm planning in January to leave.
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