I met a musician on the bus several weeks ago when I was working the 2nd shift at the university I work at as a contract parking attendant for Visitor parking. Now I am working the first shift. We started talking. He did not ride the same bus I took home every Monday through Friday. Only when needed. I am currently in a relationship with another guy, which I told him. I did not mind being his friend, but I cannot be more than that.
He wanted to invite me to one of his concerts, & so he gave me his business card. He asked me to call him, but since I saw his e-mail, I chose to e-mail him instead. He responded several weeks later that he currently does not have a computer & that he had to use a computer that one of his band mates has. He asked me to call him, that he misses me & that he wants to see me soon. I sent the e-mail to my boyfriend so he knows what is going on. He told me it is ok with him that I go to the concert, & that the 2 of us can be friends. So I texted the musician. He called me to say hi.
Recently the musician saw me on the bus, & he suggested that we go to Starbucks one day. I said ok.
I do not text the musician that much. He texts me more than I text him.
Then this Wednesday he sent me a text at 12:04 asking me if I wanted to come to his place to listen to him play music. I did not get the text until Thanksgiving. I was at my boyfriend's place this Wednesday. I let my boyfriend know what he texted to me. He suggested that I let him know that I have a boyfriend. So I responded to his text stating that I am in a relationship with another guy.
What I do not get is why did it go from going to Starbucks to having me go to his place after midnight to listen to him play music?
He wanted to invite me to one of his concerts, & so he gave me his business card. He asked me to call him, but since I saw his e-mail, I chose to e-mail him instead. He responded several weeks later that he currently does not have a computer & that he had to use a computer that one of his band mates has. He asked me to call him, that he misses me & that he wants to see me soon. I sent the e-mail to my boyfriend so he knows what is going on. He told me it is ok with him that I go to the concert, & that the 2 of us can be friends. So I texted the musician. He called me to say hi.
Recently the musician saw me on the bus, & he suggested that we go to Starbucks one day. I said ok.
I do not text the musician that much. He texts me more than I text him.
Then this Wednesday he sent me a text at 12:04 asking me if I wanted to come to his place to listen to him play music. I did not get the text until Thanksgiving. I was at my boyfriend's place this Wednesday. I let my boyfriend know what he texted to me. He suggested that I let him know that I have a boyfriend. So I responded to his text stating that I am in a relationship with another guy.
What I do not get is why did it go from going to Starbucks to having me go to his place after midnight to listen to him play music?
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