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Thank you all for your support. This isn't the first time she has kept news of this sort from me, the last time I blew up about it as well, I had a nice quiet few months after that when she wouldn't talk to me
. I love her but man can she be work sometimes. I talked with her and dad about the withholding of information again, I think dad is going to try better to stay in the loop to keep me in the loop. He usually leaves that sort of thing up to mom, but I think he now realizes mom censors what she tells me.
Mom is still feeling that grief is why my cousin subjected me to that and doesn't want to hear from dad or me that it's not, that's the way her family has always treated me. So as it stands now, I won't talk to them, I don't want to hear from them, I want nothing to do with them and Dad fully supports me. Mom is pouting but not much she can do about that.
I sent a donation to the Canadian Cancer Society in Aunt D.'s name, as well as to Diabetes research. Cancer is what her sisters died off and was part of what she died of as well. She had cancer but then her sugars from her diabetes went out of control and as the doctors put it at 90, we can make you comfortable or we can try to correct them, it's either/or. She chose comfort. I'll miss her but she had a great life and was a wonderful, old dame, full of life and in full control of her facilities to the end. She lived in her own home until the week before she died, when she went into the hospital and I like to think she went out on her own terms and is with her husband now.
. I love her but man can she be work sometimes. I talked with her and dad about the withholding of information again, I think dad is going to try better to stay in the loop to keep me in the loop. He usually leaves that sort of thing up to mom, but I think he now realizes mom censors what she tells me. Mom is still feeling that grief is why my cousin subjected me to that and doesn't want to hear from dad or me that it's not, that's the way her family has always treated me. So as it stands now, I won't talk to them, I don't want to hear from them, I want nothing to do with them and Dad fully supports me. Mom is pouting but not much she can do about that.
I sent a donation to the Canadian Cancer Society in Aunt D.'s name, as well as to Diabetes research. Cancer is what her sisters died off and was part of what she died of as well. She had cancer but then her sugars from her diabetes went out of control and as the doctors put it at 90, we can make you comfortable or we can try to correct them, it's either/or. She chose comfort. I'll miss her but she had a great life and was a wonderful, old dame, full of life and in full control of her facilities to the end. She lived in her own home until the week before she died, when she went into the hospital and I like to think she went out on her own terms and is with her husband now.
You did well to donate, and I think you did well to cut that part of your family off, too.
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