Here is what seems to be my mother's rules for living in the house:
-Never fight with your sister or parents. If someone insults you, you simply suck it up, no matter how much they keep walking around continuing to insult you. If someone hurls abuse at you, you are required to also suck it up because it IS your fault.
-If someone tells you to do something, you must do it straightaway. Even if it's "just a suggestion" you must do it straightaway. failure to do so means that you are lazy and stupid and cannot function in normal society.
-If you attempt to visit psychologists, you are lying unless I can hear for myself what is going on in those sessions so I know that you are not painting yourself as a saint and me as a completely horrible person. (by me, it means my mother)
-If there is a problem, you must come and talk to us. Failure to do so means that you are selfish, arrogant, believe that the world revolves around you etc.
-You must not continually ask us for money unless you are willing to talk to us about your problems.
-If someone yells at you, you must not think about it straightaway, you must let it go immediately. Even if that person comes back and continues to abuse you because you have let it go immediately. If you get into a fight with someone, you must let it go straightaway and continue on as though nothing has happened.
Do any of these sound completely sane? I know these are from how I see my mother, but I'm only 20 years old, what do I know?
-Never fight with your sister or parents. If someone insults you, you simply suck it up, no matter how much they keep walking around continuing to insult you. If someone hurls abuse at you, you are required to also suck it up because it IS your fault.
-If someone tells you to do something, you must do it straightaway. Even if it's "just a suggestion" you must do it straightaway. failure to do so means that you are lazy and stupid and cannot function in normal society.
-If you attempt to visit psychologists, you are lying unless I can hear for myself what is going on in those sessions so I know that you are not painting yourself as a saint and me as a completely horrible person. (by me, it means my mother)
-If there is a problem, you must come and talk to us. Failure to do so means that you are selfish, arrogant, believe that the world revolves around you etc.
-You must not continually ask us for money unless you are willing to talk to us about your problems.
-If someone yells at you, you must not think about it straightaway, you must let it go immediately. Even if that person comes back and continues to abuse you because you have let it go immediately. If you get into a fight with someone, you must let it go straightaway and continue on as though nothing has happened.
Do any of these sound completely sane? I know these are from how I see my mother, but I'm only 20 years old, what do I know?
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