Ok..here goes. First I know a few will probably hear this and think "They should have waited till they actually met." Please don't. I just can not see my feelings for Marmalady changing once we met. So as you probably guessed .. we have been talking about our wedding.
Now I am a bit more engaged with the process then the average guy. I LOVE talking about it, planning it, imagining it. The one thing I really really asked for was 'not the traditional wedding...ANYTHING but the traditional wedding'. So..we sat down and had some ideas..and we are wanting some input..if anybody has something to add..which idea people like most, and the like. Now although we have themes and such everybody involved but us would be free to come dressed as they liked..even the bridesmaids and grooms. You want to dress like an Orc, or a fairy, or come in t-shirt and jeans..hey if we find a place it is not illegal and you want to come in the nude..more power too you.
First up is an Autumn wedding. Either just as the leaves turn, or on Halloween. It would be medieval themed. I would wear either armor or fur, and she has suggested a red dress for her. I am a little partial to royal blue, even though red is one of my favorite colors, because she is the queen of my heart, and a queen should be dressed in Royal Blue. Still Red is a good color also. . We would have jack o' lanterns lining the path with candles for this one. And arrive in a horse drawn carriage. The reception would be banquet style.
Second is an actual wedding on Halloween, and the theme would be the 40's. Marmalady would be able to describe this more, but I assure you..I am all for it.
Next is a winter wedding. Everything in white..the decorations, the cake, my suit, her dress..her with an 'icicle tiara'. Pretty straight forward here.
Finally (so far) there is a wedding at a Con. Since a lot of the participants would be in costume anyhow, we would fit right in. I loved the video Kiakat posted of the con wedding, and wanted to include this one.
So thoughts? Suggestions? Ideas? Oh and as for when..well I did have one request from her. That we don't make those plans until after I meet her..and get to propose properly.
Now I am a bit more engaged with the process then the average guy. I LOVE talking about it, planning it, imagining it. The one thing I really really asked for was 'not the traditional wedding...ANYTHING but the traditional wedding'. So..we sat down and had some ideas..and we are wanting some input..if anybody has something to add..which idea people like most, and the like. Now although we have themes and such everybody involved but us would be free to come dressed as they liked..even the bridesmaids and grooms. You want to dress like an Orc, or a fairy, or come in t-shirt and jeans..hey if we find a place it is not illegal and you want to come in the nude..more power too you.
First up is an Autumn wedding. Either just as the leaves turn, or on Halloween. It would be medieval themed. I would wear either armor or fur, and she has suggested a red dress for her. I am a little partial to royal blue, even though red is one of my favorite colors, because she is the queen of my heart, and a queen should be dressed in Royal Blue. Still Red is a good color also. . We would have jack o' lanterns lining the path with candles for this one. And arrive in a horse drawn carriage. The reception would be banquet style.
Second is an actual wedding on Halloween, and the theme would be the 40's. Marmalady would be able to describe this more, but I assure you..I am all for it.
Next is a winter wedding. Everything in white..the decorations, the cake, my suit, her dress..her with an 'icicle tiara'. Pretty straight forward here.
Finally (so far) there is a wedding at a Con. Since a lot of the participants would be in costume anyhow, we would fit right in. I loved the video Kiakat posted of the con wedding, and wanted to include this one.
So thoughts? Suggestions? Ideas? Oh and as for when..well I did have one request from her. That we don't make those plans until after I meet her..and get to propose properly.
Comment